Cat and mouse psychology

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by ninja08hippie, Sep 4, 2013.

  1. ninja08hippie

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    Grr... I have a lot of girl friends, I guess almost all of my friends are girls and one or two of them really think they understand men, but keep ending up with the same douchebags and don't know why.

    Don't play cat and mouse phone games. That attracts one very specific type of guy and turns everyone else off. Narcissists view picking up women as a sport, and feel challenged by the chase, that's the only type of guy attracted to these games. Nice guys look for chemistry, and if you're running away to make him chase you, he's not feeling any positive chemistry and he loses interest.

    If you keep ending up with self involved guys who use you, and you play these games, it's your own fault that all the nice guys break up with you after two dates.