As a college male, i find myself thinking about the relationship between casual sex and love. im worried that casual sex is distorting my view of women, and in turn, true love. What is the solution? is it specific to me or can society set a list of social rules, or morals to guide us through this sticky mess. One one end of the spectrum you have many people (who probably lived through the sexual revolution?) who believe that sex is a way of expression, and that you shouldnt restrict yourself to loving just one person, while at the other end of the spectrum there are the religious fanatics (forgive the harsh term) who believe that sex should only happen after marriage. Should we pick sides, or can we find a happy medium? I guess I view sexual utopia as having casual sex, with both parties understanding that it is casual sex and nothing more, but then also a more meaningful sex which is undisturbed by the rampant sexcapades we might’ve previously experienced. More importantly, is a sexual utopia (whatever it may be) reachable? And if so, how will we get there? Better communication? Better contraceptives? Better sexual education? Will we ever come to an agreement regarding a general relationship between sex and love, or is it specific for each of us?