I have what seems to be a rather unique, or at least underreported, problem. I always hear of guys that cant last, come too early, etc etc but Im the exact opposite. I can go for an hour or more, each and every time. The problem is I cant come. My partner is trying to be supportive and understanding, but she has her limits. I mean, how long can you last before you start chafing, you know what I mean? I try to get off by thinking of situations that turn me on, and eventually this works; at least it did. The last 3x we were together she eventually told me to stop before I was done. This is so embarrasing and painful that I cant bring myself to talk to anyone about it. Its also destructive to the relationship. I have a lot going for me but I am reluctant to get into a relationship because this always happens. Eventually she will get tired of it and leave. It has happened before. This problem is killing me and I dont know what to do. I will wait for responses before I post anything else. I dont want to bore you to death with pages of reading. Basically Im wondering if anyone else has ever had this issue, what can be done about it, or what else about me you need to know.