I have a girl I have been seeing lately and I cannot seem to finish during sex, it is strange because when I was younger I would finish rather quickly. I have not finished with this girl on several tries, I like don't feel much during vaginal sex, and oral sex I dunno I just feel as if it will never get there. We have tried many positions. I don't understand and she is beginning to feel horrible about it because she thinks it is her fault which maybe it is but I really like her and I want this to work and so does she. I don't understand what the problem is we have tried a lot, its just ridiculous like I can't cum. I don't fucking understand it please help!!!!!!!