Are there any good techniques to help a male ejaculate? I've been seeing a girl for a while, we've had sex three times, and the sex is great for her. But for me I just can't seem to get aroused enough to cum. She screams during sex and she will cum at least once, sometimes twice, but I just can't seem to do it. I know this has been brought up before, I've been reviewing these forums looking for tricks and techniques that might help but haven't really found anything I haven't tried. I've tried missionary, her on top, side by side, reverse cow girl, oral, they all feel good but not enough for me to get aroused to the point of ejaculation. She is beginning to get frustrated with it, she keeps asking me during sex if I came or not, I tell her no. She says she wants me to enjoy it as much as her. I just make up excuses, I tell her I can't go on any further if I cum, so if I don't I can last longer. Or I'll tell her I'd have to take the condom off in order to cum. And she's suggested I use a polyurethane condom cause they feel better. That may be worth a try, but I kind of have doubts it will work.