Can't compete

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  1. longingtowatch

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    When I see photos of some of these women on this site, I feel like showing myself less and less. Definitely can't compete with the hotties. :( That's why I only want to show my pussy and nothing else. ;)
     
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    If you dont mind me saying that is daft . I cant compete with all the young well endowed men on here but I still join in when I can. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so be brave - what can you lose ?? xoxoxo :)
     
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    After looking up the definition of daft (LOL), I know it's silly, but just how I feel today. Some days I feel better about myself and some days I don't. That's all. Just sharing my current daft feelings. ;) :)
     
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    The beauty of the human form is that there are countless shapes and sizes that can arouse. Don't be limited by the common denominator view of beauty. You are a beautiful creation in your own right.
     
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    I think we all have our own insecurities. For me, this is a place to say fuck it and whoever enjoys my photos, awesome! I enjoy being dirty, but I know I'm far from "perfect." Perfect is boring anyway. It's not about competing. If it were, I wouldn't be here! It's about fun. If you enjoy showing it, show it! Find what makes you feel sexy and go with it.
     
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    Couldn't agree more.
     
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    I agree 100%.
     
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    Forgive me for using an english expression.. I think you weill find that you are more attractive than you imagine. We all have these feelings about our self image if we have the courage to admit it. This is a sexual forum for fun and discussion and not a beauty contest. I hope you will feel better about yourself. xoxoxo :)
     
  9. longingtowatch

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    Thank you. :) And don't apologize for the English expression. I love it. :)
     
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    I agree with the other replies as well. From the pics you have posted you have nothing to be ashamed of. I look forward to seeing more.
     
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    You're gorgeous hun and you should feel good about yourself.
    I love all your pics on this site and I'd definitely love to see lots more of you.
     
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    Well, it was just a moment and I shouldn't have even posted this. I sometimes get insecure about things. Need to just shutup and enjoy the site. ;)
     
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    This isnt a competion and you are far braver then me showing your girlie parts.I often feel like you but show yourself,You dont have to show your face and you dont have to show nude,My theme is "Sexy In Clothes.Welcome to the form and Im sure as time goes by you will feel a lot better about yourself.xo
     
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    Don't compare. We are all different.
    If I was to compare myself I would never post another pic.
    I try and be myself and have fun with my pics. It's nice that they men here do appriciate a more curvy, older women.
    I feel better about my body being on these sites than I have ever felt.
    I actually realized when I posted pics I could be sexy! I had never felt sexy before.
    So post and have fun!
     
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    You always have my vote dear Sweetly from an even older person who is proud to have you as a friend ! xoxoxo :)
     
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    That's why I don't look at the pics and don't post pics. I know what I look like and I know nobody on the site wants to see the "real" me.. SO...I'll stay anonymous..lol
     
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    Not completely true . I would like to see the real you clothed or otherwise. -- No pressure LOL xoxoxo :)
     
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    It's a personal choice. Posting pics isn't required. We all enjoy different aspect of the site.
    I do thing you would be surprised those. The men here appriciate all sorts of women, older, younger. Different body types.
    I enjoy the nice comment I receive. I am a chubby middle age women with cellulite and stretch marks :) lol I hide it well :) (least I hope I do :))
     
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    I am too but I only have my cell phone to take pics with. So I just don't take pics to post...just to send to the BF:D
     
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    Me too! All my pics are taken will my cell :)
     
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