I've been dating my girlfriend for 2.5 months. Everything is going great but I can't seem to cum from a bj or hj. This is something that is really starting to bother me - I can get her off (or have 2X in the past), but I can never cum so it seems backwards from normal. I'm supposed to be the easy one. It all feels great, of course, and she's real good at it (granted, Ive only had 2 girls go down on me but shes better than the first for sure). She strokes with her hand while sucking, is not afraid to deepthroat, uses tongue etc. and will go for 15-20 minutes. I came close to cumming only once and other than that it feels great, but I cannot come close. Maybe I am thinking about it too much, but I have been trying to relax more lately and I'm not seeing much of a difference. There's nothing wrong with my pipes because I can cum from masturbation fairly easily.