We started out as roomates and at the time I was looking for a friend but it grew to something more. Fast forward 3 years and I have finally ended my first relationship. Reasons for the breakup: 1) Endless arguing and bickering, no real communitcation. 2) He would choose porn over me, nuff said! 3) No romance or passion whatsoever 4) Has countless issues of his own he needs to workout (weight, depression, money, job, school) 5) Too different. (Opposites weren't attracting in this case) He is not okay with my decision and has finally drifted off to sleep after alot of crying and it makes me very sad to see him like this. I have told him he doesn't have to leave because quite frankly I like the company and I know he has no where else to go. People have been telling me that he has to leave and not give a shit about what happens to him but I can't find it in my heart to do that. I don't love him anymore but I still care about him. Is this normal? I don't really know what to do in this case and was wondering if anybody had some helpful advice or experience about this kind of situation. I would be happy if he stayed with me but can you really live with an ex ?