I admit I am rather dull compared to a lot of people when it comes to my sex life, but I do have friends that are on the wild side and I enjoy talking to them about their escapades. I have one friend in particular that has done some really crazy stuff, at least by my standards, like being heavily into S & M, going to sex clubs and the like. She told me she dated her husband for quite a while before they married and he was as kinky as she was and they were quite compatible in bed. After they got married, he got all "normal" on her (her word not mine) and she doesn't feel satisfied with him anymore. My question is, is this common? I mean, can you get into kinky sex so much that conventional sex just doesn't do it for you any more? As far as S & M goes when do you stop, I mean, draw the line? Is it harder and harder to get to the point of climaxing and you have to get more and more severe with it? Just curious, I guess.