Quick background: I was in a wonderful relationship for almost seven years, the kind where you never really leave the honeymoon phase. Everything was great. Amazing sex, could talk for hours and hours, similar interests and passions. We really never tired of eachother. We started to hit a slump which I attribute to conflicting schedules and not having enough time together. Then a couple months into our decline, on her 37th birthday (I'm seven years younger than her if that matters) something changed. Like someone flicked a switch. All of a sudden she decided that she hadn't done anything she wanted to with her life and she was going to quit her job, move to Hawaii and become a massage therapist. All without me . Fast forward a year and a half later. She is in Hawaii and loves it there but has decided that everything she wanted just isn't as nearly fulfilling as what we had together. Said that even though she has done everything she wanted that there is a feeling of something missing in her life, that she is just existing. So my question. Is it possible to go back? Can all that hurt be repaired and can you go on to have a happy life together again?