Can you actually cum with no hands when very horny?

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  1. redford2

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    This is in relation to guys: I always thought this was really a myth as I have never experienced it myself but can you actually blow your load without even touching yourself down there? my friend told me when he was younger that the girl he had a serious crush on had her skirt pulled down by her friends in front of him (a college prank) and he came there and then in his pants in like 2 seconds before he even got time to get fully hard. Needless to say he had to get out of there fast hehe.

    Can this actually happen? has there been any instances where its happened to you? if so then please give an example.
     
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    Never happened to me:)
     
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    Ive actually cum just watching porn......no hands. Blew my mind too......hasnt happened since, lol. Dangit!
     
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    Never happened here.
     
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    Never happened to me, but I can imaging at the very peak of adolescence and testosterone, if the wind blew just right it could occur. Known several women who could and also could cum with non-genital stimulation (nipples, neck, kissing, giving bj etc).
     
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    That's assuming you're not referring to wet dreams.
     
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    Maybe when I was 12 or so but never since
     
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    Nocturnal emissions hands free not that it has happened for a very long time.
    Also when balls deep in a nice tight pussy, no need for hands then ;)
     
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    Can't say this has happened to me
     
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    If it's not MY hands. There has to be a physical stimulation.
     
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    I can, but I admit I'm not a guy.
     
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    this is not a myth since i can do it...
     
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    Sometimes when giving my wife oral and really getting into it (while laying on my stomach) I feel really close to cumming. If I were to move a little with my dick against the mattress, and allow myself to do so, I'm sure I could. Yeh, I'm a real stud.
     
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    I am a great admirer of Stephen Fry. In one of his really quite numerous writings, Mr. Fry mentions that the French writer Jean Cocteau had a party trick where he lay on a table, completely nude, and achieved orgasm without ever touching himself.

    I can think of more practical ways to impress women.

    I have always viewed the hands-free/cum-in-your-jeans orgasm to be emblematic of premature ejaculation. Certainly, I get hard easily; that is the 'gallant reflex' that should flatter one's dance partner but disappear immediately thereafter. Unless my wife is being deliberately naughty in a public place such as, to take at random an episode from this weekend, an escalator at Macy's, I'm generally able to deal with all but the most persistent and unapologetic of boners.

    When I get hard for more than a few minutes, I tend to start to 'leak'. This is completely involuntary and has prompted mixed reactions from those ladies into whose mouths I have been privileged enough to introduce my schlong. If I'm super-excited, I will get quite slippery indeed and I'm always a bit self-conscious about that. I figure that if I spend the next thousand days erect and dripping on a busy streetcorner, I may possibly understand a fraction of the vulnerability that ladies may feel when they are aroused, ready and naturally well lubricated. So please, don't pity me, for fuck's sake.

    Again, it's my opinion that to ejaculate without being touched isn't a great thing. We larger fellows are really conscious of endurance issues. Between the natural tightness of a stiffy and the comparative snugness of a lady, it's easy to go over all too soon. Plus, if I'm going to have an orgasm, I want it in or on someone, whenever possible.

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    Do you feel otherwise when it's a woman cumming without 'proper stimulation'?
     
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    Such a good counterpoint.

    I will readily admit that I have a total double-standard there. This is wrapped up in the whole male experience, though. That's because culturally, both male and female orgasms are expected to be the result of male prowess.
    To summarise, here are the breakdowns with which I do not agree.

    (False impressions of) Male orgasm:
    Too Soon-I have not enough manly self-control.
    On time- You are an adequate partner and worthy of my seed.
    Late - Something is wrong with this female. She does not excite me as she should.

    Impressions (I refuse to impose my opinions without a disclaimer) of Female Orgasm:
    Too Soon: I bore her easily; she went over, but did not do so again.
    On Time: I am a very manly man and satisfy her fully.
    Late: Although she may have needed more effort, I have earned macho points for sticking in there.

    In every case, we are conditioned to think that a woman's orgasm is the result of either the man's appearance or his sexual abilities. If a lady has a spontaneous (or nearly so) orgasm, we guys can scarcely complain. She is, after all, only more ready to go over again and priming the pump has no negative effect on her fertility.

    For boys, the timing of our climaxes is vital to the survival of the species. Of the three jobs for which we are needed (lifting heavy objects, protecting women during/after childbirth or manicures, and sex) we men must, must, must get the orgasm thing right. A second ejaculation will contain fewer sperm, and they will be younger and less energetic. For orgasms 3-9 (my personal 24-hour record) the viability is even lower.

    Contrast this with the beneficial aspects of a female orgasm. Orgasm causes the cervix to allow much more semen into the uterus, increasing the chance of successful impregnation. We men are obsessed with faked orgasms because evolution has taught us that women will get pregnant from the available men they find most attractive, regardless of who fucks them.

    I looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove sending my wife over with little or no touching. A well-judged erotic story will have her shuddering with only the barest of touches. But I make her wait to talk dirty to me until I'm ready to cum. When she says 'cum in me' or 'you can cum wherever you want' or 'I want to feel your cock pulsing in my....' ...when she talks dirty, it's because that's how I want to explode, after I can't take anymore. Orgasms for men are ultimate punctuation marks, not the conjunctions they seem to be for the female species.

    So, Ms. Fullspectrumgstring, there is quite definitely a difference there, but it's an understandable one. We are, after all, delicate and worrisome men. We tend to panic at the thought of cleaning ourselves up after uncooperative bodies cause inconvenience. There just isn't any way women could possibly understand that, he said, having just returned from his class on irony.

    Cheers,

    NN
     
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    I understand all this (because it makes sense). I cum easily, quickly, and repetitively. I've been accused of faking it, but besides that, men seem pleasantly surprised by it. If a guy cums too quickly, I tend to get annoyed by it. I don't mind if he cums quickly if he stays hard after, but I realize that it isn't usually the scenario.

    As far as your opinion of a female cumming without the usual stimulation, I just like hearing the different views of men. I've had some find it 'odd' that I'm able to cum from non-clitoral/non-vaginal stimulation. (I think they thought I was faking it.) The majority have found it sexy, and often it was obviously that they felt empowered by it.
     
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    I had someone I discovered by playing with her breasts more than usual that she could orgasm from them, like my current friend.
    I liked her small breasts before, then I LOVED them even more after that, and all I thought of is sucking them, caressing them lightly and slowly.
     
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    Not sure if this qualifies, I had a recall once I was so horny I was masturbating, but I stopped a bit using my hands after finding out I made my penis harder by squeezing my legs a certain way. I enjoyed feeling the harder hardness for a bit then at a certain hands free moment I orgasmed.
     
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    Dude. Every post you type doesn't need that picture on the bottom of it.
     
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