Can it be TOO big?.

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  1. Jay the 1

    Jay the 1 New Member

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    I have had people tell me if a dick is too big it could hurt them.I'm not sure if this is possible but confused none the less :S.So this is a question to basicly about anyone out there, can it be TOO big?.
     
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    It is quite possible to be too large to be comfortable, but I have never heard of any man who is too big to have sex. You need to learn to take your time and make sure she is properly prepared if you are exceptionally large, and you also need to learn to be gentle.

    Remember, she can stretch to allow a baby to pass through there, so size isn't the only issue, being battered with a baseball bat is.
     
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    And, if one is too large, you may have to learn how to keep from totally penetrating a woman. You may have to learn how to tell when you have 6 - 7 inches in, and then don't go any further. If the cervix gets hit alot (cervix is the 'back end' of the vagina), it can bruise and cause alot of female problems.
     
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    It can cause problems if its too big. Length can be a resolvable issue. If your a female and is with a man whose how should i say... "lengthy". this is what you can do. Majority of women usually massage and rub there clit during sex. have him push it in. As he pushes it in slowly, take your hand and get a nice grip around it where your thumbs in postion to rub yoru clit. When he's deep enough for yoru comfort then hold it so he cant go any deeper and let him do his thing and you can use yoru thumb to rub your clit. Best of both worlds. He wont go too deep and hurt you, and he'll have that sensation as if he's using most of his dick. As far as thickness. is just a time thing, just make sure you and him are very very aroused where penetration woudl be easiler and both of you are close to orgasm, that way the girl wont get sore to where its not enjoyalbe, or able to walk right. lol.
     
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    I'm tierd of all this shit about Penis size! Seriously..its time for some major change in the world of sex and how society and hollywood has inflicted a imaginary truth that large is in charge. !! I do believe that to large isn't good and it can cause some disfunction and discomfort to women, and some men do have it large. Deeplover has some good ideas, I have seen it in a few porn Videos. I guess it seems to work. I guess some of our ladies have come accross the "King Kongs"!
     
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    Very true fantasien. If you look at all the threads on this site, you'll see penis size came up alot. But its been an issue since the begining of time. But if you notice with todays society. people latly are being more comfortable with themselves and there bodies. Thats just from my observation anyway. BTW the trick in porn where you seen an man who seems to have a large penis.. look at the girl and see how tiny she is. Most porn starts out there are about between 5'2 and 5'4. so of course average things for you and me woudl look larger next to a tiny girl. lol
     
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    No argument here. I totally agree with fantasien and deeperlover. I went through a little inferiority when I first started looking at porn. If you look at the women's responses on the forum here you will see that they prefer average size in a man's penis. :D If you have confidence in your love making ability you will please your girl no matter what your size is. I feel like, given the chance, I could please ANY woman in the world with my average size unit. :brow
     
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    Just to go with the argument of how average is better. Theres alot of women who talk about being with someone big but once there confronted with one, they change there mind. Most women wont do it only cause they get that anticiaption of how painful it might be or if its gonna stretch them out, etc. Lot of women woudl turn donw someone huge. If you women were to confront someone whose a good 11 inches. woudl you try it or run the other way?
     
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    If I was single, and ended up in an intimate situation, where he whips it out and Boom! - it's 11 inches..., I would not be happy. I think anybody who has that much should let the girl know in advance. I don't think I would enjoy the sex, I would constantly be thinking about making sure it didn't go too far...
    It's kind of hard to let yourself go, when your having to concentrate so much.
     
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    That is very true, kinda hard to warn them in advance though. not exactly somethig you bring up during dinner. lol. Its just one of those things you kinda hope if its dark enough and you dont put it all the way in, then its ok.
     
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    My thoughts exactly, I'm with Rose on this one. At dinner or whatever, I would want to know.
     
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    yeah! - I mean, why can't you bring it up at dinner? If sparks are flying, it seems like a normal conversation to me....
    "...ummm, I think I should let you know...ummm, I am considered a bit ...large. If that's a problem, we could talk about it...:uhh: ..."

    I think the courtesy might be very positive.
    jmho :)
     
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    But how often do you girls encounter a larger than life cock? Is it one in 10, 20, etc. That is if you still have multiple sex partners over a period of time. I guess it could be like Russian Roulette if you had sex with a lot of different guys often. I know Rose has had at least one above average and one porn sized one before me. LOL! But do you (or did you) encounter the painful cocks that often? Just wondering. :p

    I know if I was that huge I would make it a point to warn the girl prior to putting it in. If she was willing to work with me - cool! If not - How big is your mouth baby? How about a blow job?
     
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    It might sound great but it can really be a problem. You'd be suprized how many women want an average guy.
     
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