Can he be too big for anal even if I like it?

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  1. LeeAnn

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    Hi, I have sort of an embarrassing question, so here goes. Well, first some background. I'm in that weird minority of girls who really enjoys anal sex, and I mean I really like it alot, as in prefer it to regular most of the time. I'm pretty sure it started a few years ago with seeing it done in porn, and it looked great and fun, so when I finally worked up the nerve to ask this boy to do it with me, I had made up my mind before hand and was hooked on it from my first insertion. I haven't dated lots of guys, a few, and I'm finding its hard to find one who wants anal as often as I do.

    Haha, yes, of course I'm sure there are plenty out there who would gladly do me and that's it, but as far as me finding everything that I'm lookingfor in a guy for a relationship. Not long ago, through a friend of mine who gave my secret away to someone else, ahem, I get this phone call from this guy, we meet and hang out, he's pretty cool, older than me, he asks me out for friday, I accept, and while we're waiting on our food he confides in me that my friend told him about what I like, tells me that he loves it too but has a problem finding a girl who likes it. My head was spinning at that point! He's more secure than other guys I've dated. I mean I was thrilled in a way that at least my big "issue" is being addressed so directly, but I'm really embarrassed that my friend steered this guy my way just for that reason, and that we were sitting there trying to have a talk about it.

    However, I'm also not dumb and am considering the possibilities. I usually don't have sex with a guy that I haven't dated a few times at least, or that I've known through other friends, but he definitely had what I sit on his sights, and he was so .....sincere, and it brought that out in me too, like, okay, hell yeah I'd love to have it since it has been awhile! :lol We were too worked up to eat and left early. I was buzzing over the whole thing, like I said, I've never done anything like this. Well we get to his apartment a I quickly realize why he has a harder than usual time finding girls who want anal with him-he's huge, and i mean HUGE :drool Like the guys you see in porno movies huge.

    My first thought was just wow, and I was impressed. I sit down in front of him while he's standing, and its beautiful but OMG is it a monster. Here's the thing though, I'm on the petite side, his equipment around the head alone is probably several inches around, I couldn't begin to even get my mouth around it. I was thinking there's no way in hell we're going to fit even a quarter of this up my butt without it really hurting, but, we go very slowly, he takes a long time to work the head in, and it turned out fantastic! :p I wasn't sure how it wasn't killing me, after he was deeper in me and pumping for awhile he got even harder and thicker, the thrusts gave me a strange abdominal crampy feeling but in a good way.

    I reached the big O twice with stimulation - we were in doggy on the side of the bed, with me bent over/standing at first, then up on my knees after I loosened up enough to take a harder slamming. I even requested he squirt in my mouth and that thing firehosed forever, it was incredible. All of sudden he's making popcorn and wants me to spend the night and watch movies, which I did. We did it again on the couch but I was sore at first, and then got into it all over again.

    I was very sore the next morning, sat in the tub, checked my butthole in the mirror but no sign of damage. I was constipated the next night, crampy, but later on finally went without any trouble or bleeding - sorry if I'm grossing you out :eyes - and so its gone for the past two weeks. I honestly don't know how it fits, like I said, I'm even petite, my ass is shapely but its just not very big, and I guess I'm concerned that my plumbing could be affected because of the difference in sizes? We use lots of ky and always go slow to work it in, but after we get into it he can slam it all up into me really hard and I just melt and go weak in the knees. We've done it six times in about two weeks, almost always the same bathroom regularity. Its so weird, like my bottom was just waiting for this guy to come along, and

    I've already developed a pattern around what I would've thought was unlikely or even impossible. Does that make sense? We're getting along better than I have with any other guy, plus he's awesome with sex and built like king kong. Maybe I'm just afraid something will go wrong. He's really a sweet guy but we both realize we are both getting something unique out of this. He says I'm the only girl who has been able to take his entire thing balls deep in the butt, I just don't want him thinking he owns me over it but he's been cool enough so far that I know he's gotten that impression from me, you know, like all he has to do is pull it out and I'm little miss stuff my ass right away.

    I'm not sure how to put it, I get hit on sometimes and asked out, so I'm not desperate, but I know this guys had a few girlfriends too and wouldn't have trouble finding someone else. I'm also unsure about his supposed lack of anal with other girls bcause he sure knows what he's doing and I doubt he'd be as good and be able to last as long as he does if he hadn't had another girl before-and yes as it turns out I'm pretty sure I know who she is.

    I know I don't have the nerve to ask our family doctor or any doctor-could you image that?-I'm seeing this guy with a huge dong and I love it when he crams it up my butt..is there any chance he's going to ruin something back there? :eek Anyone have any experience along these lines? BTW I did measure and he is about 9.5 long and 7 around from the head to the center, then it tapers. My butthole is probably the size of a dime. How is this possible?:ugh :lol
     
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    Sexualforums.com should not be a replacement for seeing a doctor. If you are really concerned you should see a doc. You won't embarrass him/her they've heard it all I'm sure. LOL!

    I'm sure you will get some advice from some posters here also. My wife and I do anal all fairly often but I'm not near the size of your guy's cock so we don't have the same issue as you. ;) Some days she has to stop me cuz it hurts her too much.
     
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    Maybe, its just that I've been on a really weird buzz because of all of it, you know? Its good to be able to talk openly and anonymously, there's no way I could face a doctor and ask this question.
     
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    Thanks to your registration, we now have all your private information and I am personally forwarding this question to your family doctor. You should recieve a response in the next 24h.

    I'm just Joking... :phat Welcome to the forums, could you edit your post into paragraphs? A little hard for me to read.
     
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    free advice:

    use some space and air when you write such a long text... it's a turnoff to even just look at it :D
     
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    Why aren't there more women like her in the world *shakes head*
     
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    Maybe it was a little hard to read but it was pretty HOT LeeAnn! :sex
     
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    I'm sorry to be of no help at all... lol..
    I've done research on the web that comes up with the answer "you'll be fine, there's no need to worry" and also found sites that say the opposite. I suspect that there would be discrepencies even among doctors opinions...

    *sigh* I wish my hubby were more into anal... no pun intended...
     
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    Sorry that some of you had a bad time trying to read my post. I know I can really go on, sorry :eyes I read info online too punkkitty and have never really found anything beyond, if it doesn't feel good, don't do it-type of advice, and I'm feeling fine with it so I think I'll just take it as it comes. *No pun intended* :D

    Have you tried to coax your husband toward anal sex? I know some guys aren't really into it, or don';t want to be IN to IT :lol You can talk about it, you could also pull down your jeans and thrust your bare butt at his crotch! Don't laugh, I actually resorted to that once! Got what I wanted ;) even if the guy I was with wasn't very good at it.
     
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    I edited your post and put random paragraphs in it, should be easier to read now.
     
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    Yeah, we've done it once (that I remember) which was recently, and once in high school (that he tells me I enjoyed, lol, but on't recollect.)
    Unfortunately, he's got other issues (ongoing prostate trouble) that kinda kill anal sex for him mentally.
     
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    The whole anal thing has been an understood never gonna happen situation. We used toys and such to stimulate a dp thing but cause of my size plus piercing, she wouldnt let me anywhere near there. but from what i understand, anal once in a while is ok but if its constantit coudl cause damage in the long run. I'm not sure.
     
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    God Yes!!
     
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    The first time we did it, it was quite be accident. We were into the hot & heavy phase of sex and I just hit the wrong hole. I stopped, heard a little shriek, was about to pull out , then heard an Mmmmm!!!! :phat After that it was our "preferred way" for a good while. Now it's not every time but it's a great option. :brow

    I had seen a lot of anal in porn. At first I thought it was gross but after a while I was a little curious and when it happened it was like, WOW, I've been missing out on this for years!:drool Rose will tell you she LOVES it and has great O's while doing it with some stimulation. :brow
     
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    Things are going great :brow We did it again last night but this time we used Vaseline instead of Ky. It's thicker and greasier so it does work better for getting a really large cock into a small butt. What I don't care for is, I've used it before with this other guy, and it makes me get pimples on my cheeks because its so greasy :mad :eek None yet that I can see though. :)
     
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    try silicone based lubes...
     
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    now i'm curious about trying vaseoline.. i just got to get her drunk also. and maybe valium.
     
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    You are so not trying vaseoline on me. If you do..... all I have to say is paybacks a bitch. I love you baby :)
     
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    LOL - yeah!!! purchase a "monster" strap-on... that'll make him think twice!;)
     
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    I was thinking about that. :) I told him i woudl let him do it to me and i woudl bear it if he let me go first. I saw this new thing where you can get a kit and mold someones penis and when your done you got a lifelike acurate dildo. I know they used that stuff to make the dildos made from pornstars. I wanted to do that from deep's and add the prince albert piercing and use that as a strap on for him just to see what it feels like.
     
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