[Ask a Guy] Can a woman be too sexual?

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  1. HotForHoney

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    Do you think a woman can come off as too sexual? Would that scare you off? Is it a turn on/off?
     
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    If she does and it scares the guy off...wasn't the right guy.
     
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    Interesting question. Speaking for myself I would be turned on,But I also agree with audirs4 It's the wrong guy. Or he has got something bad wrong with him.
     
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    Too sexual, NO! NO! NO!
    Too trashy looking in public, yes.
    Too flirty in public, yes.
     
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    that should be every guys dream girl
     
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    Kind of hard to say. Perhaps, I guess. If a conversation developed and sexual talk eventually came up I think most guys would be fine with it. I guess it all depends on the circumstances.
     
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    Yes agree with Amature about circumstances prevailing but some times I let stuff slip out and I'm like shit take that back lol and I definitely agree with the above about it being the wrong guy if he doesn't like it that would lead to a pretty boring sex life. In public you need to carry yourself a certain way but once home alone with Hubby it's on like donkey kong lol
     
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    IMhO, it varies as much as one's taste in music or food, and it's the "fit" that matters most. One man's trash is another man's treasure and so on... I do think that many guys would like a wallflower at the dance, but a dandelion in the grass.
     
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    Sorry HFH I just realized this was "Ask A Guy" question x
     
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    I am usually very quiet and reserved most of the time. I am an accountant, we are generally boring. But if I am with my friends or talking with certain guys, watch out, my private life is completely different.

    I think that it depends on the circumstances. I don't think that a woman can be too sexual. If that is the case with the guy you are with, find another guy, that one is apparently wrong for you. You will grow bored quickly. Most important is to be you and enjoy it.
     
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    Sluttyfairy is a raging savage beast of sexuality.....and I'm one lucky sombeech...
    Example; I just walked in 15 mins ago , said what a shitty day I had and that I was gonna need to go back to work tonight. She said " no problem. I'll suck the hell outta your cock before you go"....man that woman knows how to solve a problem:D:D:D
     
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    There are guys that would be maybe put off by it. Most, I think, would feel blessed to have a sexual woman.

    I was married to my ex for 20 years. Sex wasn't her favorite thing. I assumed most women were like that. After the divorce I found out women really do like sex. Wow. I had no idea.

    A sexual woman is an attraction

    A woman needs to have a sexy mind first.
     
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    Yes, I lived that life as well.. For 30 years I had a wife with almost no interest in sex. Then I learned that not ALL women feel that way. It is a wonderful thing to have a woman that enjoys her sexuality.. And I do find it kind of a turn on to watch her flirt w other men and women...
     
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    Ditto 12BB's story, except when I did discover the "other" women out there I gorged like a greedy school boy locked in a lolly shop overnight!
     
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    Tell me where this shop is, I need to know!
     
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    Okay I honestly am not sure what "too sexual" means. Like , has a lot of sex with a lot of people? Just to open aboout it? I love a confident girl thay likes a lot of sex differant ways but I was turned off by a girl that I met and we ended up having sex that night but then I went on a "date" with her the next weekend and during normal conversation( I am not sure how she even connected this to what we were talking about) she just told me she answers craigslist ads and fulfills fetishes for money like peeing on people and taking pictures . And then later seeing a friend of mine she said similar things adding to a conversation that had nothing to do with it.....lol is that what you mean by too sexual?
     
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    No, like someone who is in touch with their inner whore, writes stories but doesn't sleep around or dress like a hooker.
     
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    Then I would say no , I don't see how that is "too sexual"
     
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    No way. That's great.
     
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