Button words and launch phrases

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  1. nicelynoosed

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    I like words. A lot.

    In bed, when she's ready for me to go over, there are some really choice phrases that help to get me to that shuddering, stretching, melting peak from which one can see everything that's really important. Similarly, she is really quite fond if I begin to whisper roughly into her ear a selection of happy obscenities.

    The thing is, although we are kinky, many activities require a fair bit of preparation or are quite inconveniently untidy. So, just talking about them is just as good and in some ways better than the real thing. Less cleanup, no disassembly of toys/furniture required, police/neighbors are not knocking on the door, etc. We're busy people, with pets and co-workers and kids (we think...somewhere), none of whom should suffer neglect because we're locked in the bedroom busily fucking and fucking and fucking and also fucking.

    So, these shortcuts help us make it to church/school/work and the dog park. The words really do make everything better.

    I've noticed that there is some use of language that seems to break down by gender, although this may be a stereotype. It has often been said that guys will tend to be graphic in their sex talk, i.e. "I love shoving my cock inside you," "I'm going to cum in your mouth," "Put the inflatable sheep on my dick while I lick your elbow." Women, so we are told, will verbalize feelings more than actions, e.g.. "You feel so good inside me," "You are stretching me open so wide," "I love how hard you are, but please put down those eggbeaters."

    So, what can someone say to send you over the edge? What are your favorite go-to (or enough-already!) lines to use to help someone else get there?

    Please be specific, attach digarammed sentences if necessary, and remember that spelling most definitely counts.

    NN
     
  2. whybother

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    Depends on our mood. As we moved from "fucking" to "making love" we dropped the coarser terms and added euphemisms. Instead of "suck my cock or "lick my pussy" it was "please kiss me down there." And instead of "fuck Me" it was "will you get on top of me," I want you in me." We use phrases like "I want to taste you." and "kiss me all over." Instead of "I'm cumming" we are more subtle, like "That feels great like that. Don't stop that, I'm getting so close. Tat will do it I'm close. It's time. That's it. That's it. That's it..." oops sorry, got carried away thinking about it.
     
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    These are mostly context specific. Dependent on mood, level of arousal, physical location, sobriety, who my partner is... But some common words/phrases that seem to excite both parties?

    I want to cum on your cock.
    Cum on my cock.
    Cum for me.
    I want your cum.
    Fuck you feel so big.
    I love stretching your tight pussy.
    I'm not going to last long if you keep doing that.
    I want your mouth on me.
    I love tasting you.
    I'm gonna make you choke on my cock.
    Yeah baby, you like that?
    Fuckkkk.
    You taste so good.
    You're so fucking wet.
    You're so fucking tight.
    Shut up and fuck me.
    Where do you want it?
    I'm going to cum all over your ____.
    I want you inside of me.
    Don't stop..

    etc.
     
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    Why did this thread never take off? Do people not use words? lol
     
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    I love love love words, the filthier the better! This is how my husband got me to date him (long story). We didn't do what he said to me that night, but it really got my attention.

    I suppose I am not typical if most women like to say things about feelings during sex. Besides fuck and suck and lick and cock, etc., I just really love the words, taste and feel and baby.
     
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    No matter what else is going on, how I'm feeling, or whatever else -- if she wants to get me going and interested instantly all she does is lean close to my ear and breathe/whisper, "I need you inside me right now."

    Sometimes I think she does it just to fuck with my head and get that Pavlovian reaction from me.
     
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    Eh, the words are only effective as the physical reactions that accompany them. Thousands of years of human history have turned lying into a social imperative for most women, so I'd much rather feel an orgasm than hear about it.
     
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    Wow. Just... wow.
     
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    Lol, I don't mean it in a malevolent way, only that historically it has proven to be in a woman's best interest to fudge the truth, especially in dealing with men, and even more especially in dealing with sex. Given all that cultural baggage, I've just found it easier to go off of what a woman does, or what she doesn't say in order to gather the truth.. so as per OP, I leave the talking, and buzz words and buttons for porn, in real life, what she does, and the genuine enthusiasm with which she does it speaks more volumes than her mouth ever could.
     
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    Growing up, I read many books, all of which made clear the 'ladies first' philosophy. As such, several partners have seemed to find it fascinating that I can usually climax on demand, mainly because I've been holding off long enough for them to get theirs.

    I like being asked to peak.

    I like hearing phrases like:

    "I want to feel you cum in me."
    "I want you to use me to get yourself off now."
    "Don't stop until you cum."

    Just as effective are quasi-permissions. As I said when I began this thread, talk can be a great substitute for activities not immediately possible. This can run the range from specific acts, to sexy scenarios, to suggestions about playmates we might bring to bed with us:

    "You can fuck my ass whenever you want."
    "Next time, I want you to just tie me up and use me."
    "We should have Chris and Jamie over. Maybe we can all finally get naked."

    She looks me in the eye when she says these things, knowing what I'm doing and what I'm trying to do to/with/in/on her, specifically to send me over. Gee whiz, but it works.

    NN
     
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    When I saw your first reply I was speechless, you covered enough options I didn't have anything to add o_O
     
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    E has never been very vocal in during sex. I mean he's not a mute but I'm the loud one telling him to cum with me or showing my appreciation by agreeing repeatedly at the top of my lungs :)

    We sext through out the day but not so much talk when it comes down to it, too much going on :D:p
     
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