Obviously situations vary but how do you bring up trying " new" things with your partner. I say "new " as in you have or they have done it in the past or new to both of you. In my current situation she used to be a little more wild and adventurous but that has faded. Most things I bring up now usualy ends up with a reply like " why, did you do that with your ex's " , " why , am I boring " , " or why would you do that ". In past talks we have discussed our sexual past and mine is a bit more adventurous. She is not open to very much and is a bit self concious and skeptical. She has no reason to be , she is attractive and I only want to spice it up. We have less time nowadays but I would still try and do more. our sex has pretty much come don to her on top or meon top. I bring up Ideas in a offhanded mentioning but doesn't seem to go any where. Any sit down discussion has usualy gotten into negativity but sometimes it seems like she thinks about it. Ihave mentioned trying another guy to have us both please her, toys , voyeurism , roll playing , dirty talk , differant positions , and just getting dirty with cum. Seems like it just goes in one ear out the other. Anyideas? Input? You own situations?