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  1. jess09

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    I just learn today that my boyfriend watches porn regularly, videos and all. Is it normal ? Do most guys do that ? I just don't want to be consider as an object when I'll have sex with him.
     
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    It's completely normal .... you should make it a couples activity... ;)
     
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    Watching porn is a thing guys do. It's not bad, so I wouldn't worry. It's easy for us girls to get jealous, but the people in those movies are never going to see your man, so don't get bent out of shape about it. Watching porn does not make a man treat you as an object. That's up to the man. My fiance watches porn on occassion, and I used to get jealous. However, we started watching them together so I didn't feel so left out. Try that.
     
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    But do you think he will expect me to be as good as those women in the videos ?
     
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    I am sure you are better. You need to relax and enjoy sex. You are too stressed out about it! Maybe you should just not have sex yet....
     
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    No, he shouldn't. And remember practice makes perfect! :)
    It is perfectly normal, but as A1 said...you should do it together. ;)
    Tends to heat things up real fast! After awhile you are forgetting the TV altogether!!
    Try it! - You might like it! :brow
    ~Bella
     
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    Yeah all guys watch porn. You should try to watch them with him sometime. He'll think its hot if you just do that. it might also help you learn what he likes most.
     
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    Girl, I love porn! It's perfectly natural (and perfectly good fun). I do think there's such a thing as overdoing it, though.
     
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    One more thing to consider Jess,
    It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, so long as you eat at home.:brow
     
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    It is perfectly normal to watch. Try watching with him. You will love it. My wife and I always watch porn DVD'S while we have sex. We lightly masturbate together as part of foreplay while we watch. We have intercourse in the spoon position while watching or oral sex. My wife loves it as much as I do. Our favorites are group sex, threesomes, fouresomes, orgies and cum shots. Really makes us both hot. Enjoy.
     
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    watching porn together is also 1 way to bond with your partner
     
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    Most of them watch porn for masturbatory relief. They're simpler creatures than us and therefore cannot only use their imaginations. They have to have visual stimulation. :lol :lol
     
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    Ok Puss in boots I must be one of the simple creatures because I love to watch porn. Gets my motor running when no one else is at home to shift my gears. Does it slow me down in anyway with my sexual relationship with my wife-not one bit. Some of us have alot more sex drive than others. Will it hurts this young gals relationship with her boyfriend-only if she lets it.
     
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    My B/F watches X vids .. and I got no probs with it!
    Sometimes when the mood is right .. I'll watch the vids with him
    and have sex just like the people in the movie .. are doing it!

    BTW.. since I'm Bi .. there are quite a few times I've watched a
    lez vid with my special G/F .. when we're alone together!! .. It most
    definitely adds to the sexy moment.. and then sum!!

    In my opinion .. I think you should try watching one with him!
    You might find out something exciting.. you've been missing.
     
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    :p :p
     
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    Whoa whoa whoa! Yes it is perfectly natural for a guy to watch porn. It is also nice of a guy to respect his gf and not watch porn. 100% of the time the gf is gonna feel like she isn’t good enough! I stopped watching it when I got my gf. We watch it sometimes together.

    Why do I need porn when I have a perfectly beautiful GF? My gf is away at university. So if anybody was gonna watch it, that would be me. But I can masterbate thinking about her, or have phone sex with her, or web cam…

    It only helps destroy my perception of beauty even further. I guess I just feel like it’s not right. I sure don’t want my gf getting off to other dudes… :x
     
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    Ah ha. Good point! It is a two-way street, and so a guy shouldn't mind if his gf utilizes her vibrator while looking at Playgirl ;)
     
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    Just remember ... you're the one that your SO climbs into bed with at the end of the day, it's that what matters?
     
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    This has really been said before; yes most guys watch porn. My boyfriend watched A LOT before we got together, but he cleaned it all out of his computer when we started dating initially. I wouldn't worry about him comparing your performance to the girls in the films. Porn stars are first and foremost actors getting paid to perform. I'm sure your boyfriend understands that what is happening in the films isn't reality and everyone is different in bed.
     
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    I think most guys do watch it.Mine does.I don't get offended.He usually does it when I'm not around to take care of him...which I try my damnedest to do(our work schedules conflict,can't be helped).Also,it's not always for him to get off on.He does honestly watch it for "educational" purposes(I can vouch for it!).
    Also,we watch it together...that can be fun.
    All that matters is,he goes to bed with me.
     
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