bout 2 lose it help plz

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  1. kermittow

    kermittow New Member

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    shes commin over 2 morrow.........

    Well im about to lose my virginity to my girlfriend(sorta) of 9months that i love fully and truly and i was concerned about a few things......

    1.My dick is about 6 last time i checked(few months ago) and its pretty thick but it sorta hangs to the side when hard its not straight and pointy its hard but not rock hard or anything i heard there were exercises you can do involving your PC which i have no idea what that is or where it is can someone please tell me

    2. Any tips for a first timer im not new to girls or anything just no sex ive had my little things here and there and feel pretty comfortable around girls not nervous or anything.

    3.When i masturbate i dont last to long but if i do it twice i last for a while so im guessing i should do that before sex masturbate a few times

    4.Im not circumsised(thank god) but im concered about putting on the condom how would that work with the foreskin should i pull it down and put it on or keep it up and put it on

    5. Along the lines of condoms which should i get for about a 6 incher they have em in the restrooms at 7 eleven but i doubt i should really trust those condoms and they also have them in the fastmart guess ill get those instead(or have my brother get them becuase im to imbarresed)

    6. which position is best i heard letting her be on top is best since she can be in control and stuff

    Thank you
     
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  2. killjoy

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    tips eh.......
    well.......if she's also a virgin, take it really really slow.....you don't want to hurt her........maby get yourself some lube aswell............
    as for the condoms......any condom will fit you (unless you buy the ones marked extra large), try going for somthing plain, not 'studded' or ribbed.....
    Don't worry about your foreskin when putting the condom on......i'd recommend you don't pull it back though cos if you have it pulled back and it gets pulled back further during intercourse it could hurt.
    yes, wack off before your girlfriend comes over, it'll relieve some of your tension and will increase your staying power to some degree...
    oh, and don't buy the 711 condoms in the washrooms, go for a trusted brand (Durex, Trojan, etc...) they might be a few bucks more but its definately worth it...
    as for positions, it all depends on your girlfriend.......some girls are more comfortable on top, because they can control what goes on, but others prefer missionary......ask her.....
    hope this is of some help.
     
  3. acidrain47

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    This reply is coming from a chick: Okay as far as pc muscles...in order to strengthen them you need to practice stopping your urine mid-stream when you pee...that's your pc muscle...after a few times of this you should be able to contract it at times when you're not using the restroom.

    Any tips for first timer...well first is she a virgin too? If so just...be gentle with her...you don't have to feel like your in a porn your first time..so relax and have fun.

    As far as masturbation...if you'd like to prolong it, you can masturbate before hand, but i wouldn't suggest a "few" times like you said...if you get off too many times you may not be able to sustain a full erection or be able to ejaculate...just my experience of having sex many many times a day.

    As far as the foreskin/condom thing i've never had sex with an uncircumsized person..but i did find this information for you:

    If the penis is intact (has a foreskin), put the condom on with the foreskin pushed back. Once the shaft is covered, push the foreskin forward (toward the tip). This lets the foreskin move without breaking the condom at www.safersex.org

    As far as penis size and condoms- condoms are made out of latex...which has a certain amount of stretch...so unless you're a 2 inch man or a 13...i think you can stick with just the regular run of the mill...and buy lubricated...it'll make the experience better just in case she isn't a very "wet" girl....also IMO i think if you cannot purchase them yourself because you're too embarassed..then you shouldn't be having sex...that's a part of it...so you could do it yourself..or even have her go with you...there's all kinds with studs.....ribbed...stuff like that....also i wouldn't suggest the extended pleasure ones with the numbing solution, in my experience it can have a weird effect on some men, making them so completely numb they go limp.

    As far as position...that's up to you and your lover....if it's your first time...i've heard girl on top makes a man last longer because she has more control and he's more relaxed...therefore not allowing him as deep and fast of thrusts...however...if it's her first time she may not be comfortable..depends on if she's sexually aggressive or not...i would suggest you have lots of foreplay and lead up to sex..that way you'll know what she's into..and you said you've already done little things...so you probably already have a sense of how aggressive she is...but keep in mind...some women will say one thing...but do another...or be another when it actually comes down to it.
     
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    ya ill have to go get some out of the store today we decided not to do it we were gonna wait a little sorta plan it out because........well i cant say but you should know parents and all that crap but anywaz ya imma go get some condoms tomorrow she was saying she doesnt wanna do anything before she just wants to do it she doesnt get excited by foreplay to much but i dunno well see
     
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