Bored?

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  1. confused08

    confused08 New Member

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    I know I have wrote about this before but figured I would revisit it. Im only 26 years old but having some major boredom issues with the woman. We have been together for over 9 years(almost 10) and I am getting extremely bored with our sex life. Has anyone been there done that? If so how did you mix it up and make it better? I am open to anything and everything. So share your stories if you could. Maybe I could get some new ideas to blow her mind and mine.
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    Get out of the bedroom, go to different places,pool,beach,car,under the rain. The possibilities are endless, kamasutra its good, try to do different things. Talk to her tell her what you would like. I know after 10 years or so you could still find things to pleassure each other more.
     
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    Get her some toys, like the rabbit style vibes, blindfold her, tie her up, and "introduce" her to the new toy. Tell her to use it whenever she feels like it, with or without you. Actually, hide it in her purse one day when she's on her way to work! LOL!

    Write some erotic stories for each other. Watch some porn together. One or both of you wear a mask next time you bang it out. Do some of the dirtiest talk you ever have. Draw or paint on each other. Take sexy pics of each other. Find some good tunes, strip for your wife, and give her a sensual (rather than athletic) lap dance. The sky is the limit...use your imagination!

    Cheers!
    BD
     
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    haha I would laugh my ass off if I found my vibe in my purse while at work. You know it could turn your girl on and thinking about sex all day if you did this. Or something along these lines haha.

    You know. You could guy one of those new things the finger vibes for her haha
     
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    Yup, that is indeed the idea. :dgrin

    BD
     
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    SP is on the money with this one.
    It took us 20 years to get bored but sadly a decade later nothing has changed in that respect altho' lots has on other fronts.
    Enough said.
    People try to keep your lives full and interesting and then sex will be as well.
     
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    Som interesting ideas here. I will have to try this out. Thanks for everyones input.
    We do watch porn together and it seems we have great sex afterwards. But seems to me that she gets sick of it. I have thought about the dirty talk thing, just not too sure how she would take that. I dont want to scare her out of the bed you know. Im basically into anything I am just having hard time telling her things and when I do have the courage I feel like alot of it comes out wrong.
    I am starting to wonder if I have an addiction to sex seriously. Is it wrong to want it all the damn time? I mean except for that 30 min right after. HAHA.


     
  8. igor

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    I'm sorry but I fail to see how people can get bored with sex. In over 40 years of marriage we were pretty routine and unimaginative in what we did but I would never say we were bored. If you are having sex, be glad for what you have while you have it.