Boobs and bras and things

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  1. sandwich

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    I just want to know what both sexes think about all this. I got to wondering about Kate Upton's boobs after I saw her in her new movie (this thread is not about her, but seeing her got me thinking). Trond had started a thread about how she doesn't like her boobs (she recently said she was misunderstood and that she does, after all, like her boobs). I remarked that she and I share a bra size. The only reason I knew that was back when everyone was talking about her I had never heard of her so I googled her name and found she is a 34D like me. I realize websites are not always accurate, but if she ever was a 34D she is bigger now (or at least she appears bigger).

    Then I remembered how I had seen candid shots of Victoria's Secret models in swimsuits with their families (in gossip magazines at the salon), and I realized in their professional photo shoots, there were likely more than just boobs in those bra cups. Then just recently I was at the salon, and Maria Menudos (unsure of how she spells her last name) said she puts these little pad things in her bikini top.

    Now I want to know if men like to see women with non-surgical enhancements. I don't bother with any of it. I have no Spanx, bra pad inserts or anything labeled "control top", "minimizer", etc. I don't feel the need for my boobs to look different from how they are, and I don't need my body to be all sucked in and smoothed by control garments. For the most part, I do not bother with a bra when I am not at work.

    I would also like to know how the women weigh in on these things. My mom has a friend who primarily wears black because of the slimming effect. I understand wanting to look your best and all, but all black all the time?
     
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    I like things " as they are" ... I'm sure the men that like that shit are the same guys that would stuff aomething down their pants to make their cock look bigger... Lol.
     
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    I wear what I feel good in. I don't give a crap about what other people think. Right now I hate wearing bras but they are a necessary evil right now because I'm nursing. Otherwise I wake up in a pool of milk, very uncomfortable.
     
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    Made the mistake of stuffing a kielbasa down my trunks once... Women didn't care for it, but the bitches loved me. (And then there was the lady that came up with crackers and cheese and asked for a slice...) :p

    On topic: I don't see the point in appearance augmenting undergarments. If you attract a guy wearing them, then imagine his disillusionment when you finally "get down to business." Those things are only good for duping strangers and "sight-seers" so what's the point?
     
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    I must admit I wear makeup, but not for how I look to others. For me it is a color thing. I have intense attractions to colors so when I look in the mirror I want to see pink lips, for instance. I do, however, dislike makeup looks that completely alter a woman's appearance. I can't stand to watch women in porn with scary porn star makeup.
     
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    Hm. I have mixed feelings on this.

    I don't see the point in heavily padded bras or silicone inserts or anything like that. Then again, I wear a 42DDD. With natural boobs that size, they aren't exactly perky and my bras must be strong enough to "control" them, haha. My bras are lined and slightly padded along the sides, but not to increase size, but to keep everything in place the way I intend.

    But, as a big girl, I do appreciate some good quality spanx underwear in my life. It's not a daily thing, but for special occasions they're fantastic. They're nowhere near sexy, but they create much better lines and smooth everything out. I usually only wear them clingy under dresses or clothing that have the tendency to "stick" to certain "problem" areas.

    That being said, I use "problem" areas as a loose term. Different outfits have different problem areas. Different undergarments are appropriate for different types of dress. I see wearing Spanx under a dress no differently than I see wearing a thong with dress pants to avoid underwear lines.
     
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    I will add this... My girl is at her sexiest when she first rolls outta bed in the morning... No make-up.... Hair all tussled ... Damn, just thinking about it makes my heart go pitty pat... Lol
     
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    ^^^^^^ I see where you're coming from. That makes me realize that I have probably have a different comfort threshold. I often slip my bra off before I start my car for my ride home (not when people are close enough to observe). I hate bras more than I could adequately describe. We women can slip them off without revealing anything! Also, I guess I avoid overly clingy things at work, but otherwise, I don't care.

    Edit....this is referring to two posts before this one (Rainbow's post).
     
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    I don't wear make up either, I hate it.
     
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    It's a confidence thing for me. In my daily life, I don't tend to care much about anything as far as looks. I think the last two times I wore Spanx were for my grad school graduation under my dress (removed in the bathroom right after finishing the ceremony) and for a job interview. It's a confidence thing. Knowing I don't have to readjust my clothing gives me one less thing to worry about and let's me focus on what's really happening.

    And the bra comes off as soon as I'm home, haha.


    I wear makeup only when it's a special event (photographs being taken) or if I'm all dressed up otherwise. I feel silly doing my hair and getting all fancy and NOT wearing makeup.

    But on a day to day basis, I don't wear makeup at all. People are normally shocked when they see me all "done up".
     
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    See, what I believe is all the men and women are same they just want to enjoy every moment with who so ever they are spending time in the bed and doing
     
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    Women's fashion has lots of enhancements. That's what heels are all about. A good pair of shoes can make a woman's ass look amazing. Bras give support. Panty hose hold things in. I would love to say that I love things natural all the time, but I love to see my wife lift her ass and tits, blow dry her hair just right and put the make up on.
     
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    How could you not like Kate Upton's breasts.... that's ridiculous ;)

    As for bra's and what not.... it is like make up or anything else. Bra's can definitely change the perception of what a woman's breasts actually look like without her clothes on. They can make them look bigger and especially change their shape. If that make's a woman feel better about herself, I'm all for it. My only hang up is when the bra come's off if the woman is self conscious about their body it can be a hindrance to her having fun.
     
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    As I have said before I only have little boobs, I am virtually flat chested.

    There was a time when I desperately wanted bigger boobs but I am 28 now and quite happy with who I am.

    I've certainly had my share of men, and some have even said I am beautiful (an exaggeration!) so clearly having small boobs isn't stopping men finding me attractive, so really it is all about my own attitude and as I said I am comfortable with my body now.

    There might be women out there with boobs who are jealous of my waistline, or women who think I am prettier than them. Everyone wants what they don't have and don't appreciate what they have.

    So just be happy with who you are. Even if you are down on yourself or your body shape there will be people out there that wish they had what you have or are attracted to you!
     
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    I have always preferred the natural look. I don't find overly big boobs attractive. In fact I actually prefer small tits.I also find it very attractive when you can see her nipples poking through her shirt and braless is very sexy to me. What I don't understand is when a woman is dressed sexy or even just braless and a guy is caught looking she gets all pissed off.
     
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    Clothes can make a big difference in looks. The right bra with a nice fitting shirt can really turn me on without showing any cleavage. The right pair of jeans can make an ass look so different. Size doesn't affect me as much as the packaging and it doesn't have to be classy, expensive stuff. Just the right fit.
     
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    I couldn't have said it better DanRB007. I like breasts but I don't like humungous looking one. The girls on Big Bang (Penny and Leonard's wife) are just about perfect, but I do like them a little smaller. A pair of nice fitting jeans and a flannel shirt really turn me on. I saw a lady on TV a while back that had had a LOT of surgeries for breast enhancement and she looked ridiculous. I forget what he size was now, but I'm not sure a 5 gallon bucket would have held one breast.
     
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    Ladies, please leave things as they are big, small, pimples (zits ?) just be yourselves, be comfortable with yourself, however that is.
    If a man loves and cares for you he couldn't care less, it is you he cares for not separate individual bits, the total you.
    Make up - yes of course if that's what you want.
    Look 'nice' for your own pleasure or/and self confidence, maybe, just maybe, if your partner wants to 'show you off'.

    Implants: If a man needs those tell him to go buy a lump of play dough, he's a kid and should get the same pleasure as he would from a bag of silicone.

    Re bras: As far as an inexperienced and even an experienced man goes they can be the 'devil's tools' if he's just looking for a bit of 'fun'. Posted this before but I'll post it again: In my younger days, long before seeing the light, I seduced (I now realise it was the other way round) a lady with the most impress frontage - like a dead-heat in a Zeppelin race. When the time came for the grand unveiling and gravity took over it was a wonder that she didn't damage her knees. I have often wondered how long it took her to 'pack' those things away when she got dressed :)
     
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    I were bras to keep everything in the right place. At the workplace and around about I get complimented on my clothing. I like to be stylish. I have my nails done regularly. Same with my hair.

    Make-up is another matter. I have been constantly told I need make-up to 'enhance' my eyes. I am sure it may give me a more polished look but sadly I never mastered the art of make up. Rather than looking like Beatrice the Beauty, I look more like Bozo, the Clown.

    What a woman feels she can do to enhance herself go right ahead. Bras are stuffed, jeans padded, spanx hold in, so what! At the end of the day, think of how your man looks at you when your breasts are freed from that bra, when your ass wiggles out of your under garments.....
     
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    If you or any other person on here needs someone that can do their makeup - I'm your man. Years of theater have provided me with many random tidbits of knowledge and useful skills. :D
     
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