I just want to know what both sexes think about all this. I got to wondering about Kate Upton's boobs after I saw her in her new movie (this thread is not about her, but seeing her got me thinking). Trond had started a thread about how she doesn't like her boobs (she recently said she was misunderstood and that she does, after all, like her boobs). I remarked that she and I share a bra size. The only reason I knew that was back when everyone was talking about her I had never heard of her so I googled her name and found she is a 34D like me. I realize websites are not always accurate, but if she ever was a 34D she is bigger now (or at least she appears bigger). Then I remembered how I had seen candid shots of Victoria's Secret models in swimsuits with their families (in gossip magazines at the salon), and I realized in their professional photo shoots, there were likely more than just boobs in those bra cups. Then just recently I was at the salon, and Maria Menudos (unsure of how she spells her last name) said she puts these little pad things in her bikini top. Now I want to know if men like to see women with non-surgical enhancements. I don't bother with any of it. I have no Spanx, bra pad inserts or anything labeled "control top", "minimizer", etc. I don't feel the need for my boobs to look different from how they are, and I don't need my body to be all sucked in and smoothed by control garments. For the most part, I do not bother with a bra when I am not at work. I would also like to know how the women weigh in on these things. My mom has a friend who primarily wears black because of the slimming effect. I understand wanting to look your best and all, but all black all the time?