Bondage without getting too crazy.

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  1. Pugovitz

    Pugovitz New Member

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    My girlfriend and I both want to try some bondage, both of us taking turns being the dominant one, but we don't like all that crazy painful looking stuff. We like some nipple pinching, ass smacking, and biting; just not hard enough to break the skin.

    Anyone have tips for fun bondage "torture" things to do that are more sexy and less painful? We especially need help with male submissive stuff; everything we've found online for that shows women scratching nuts, putting clamps on dicks, and all kinds of awful looking things.


    Thanks!
     
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    You basically want to stick with the "bondage" gear that can be found in brick and mortar sex shops then. Basic paddles, fur lined cuffs and non painful restraint systems, silk/fur blinds, etc.
     
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    Candle wax...hot but not burning, drop it from the candle about 3ft above the person.
     
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    you can use feathers to tickle & tease..

    a riding crop for light spanks (or a wooden or plastic spoon)

    one of my favorite things to do is go into one of those dollar stores (where everything is $1) and pick up 5 or 10 non sexual things that could be sexual and try them out sexually..

    adjustable nipple clamps let you control the "bite"