body language

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  1. schwa'd

    schwa'd New Member

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    what do you look for in quality indicators? my guy is not one for feedback, we've been together for awhile and i feel like i don't know him as well as i should.
     
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    Every guy is totally different.
    I think it is a matter of getting to know him.Usually you learn to 'read' each other,not always completely,but enough.If you are having a hard time,then maybe it's time for trying for some verbal communication.
     
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    I am not 100% sure what you are asking. When you say feedback do you mean veral? If so I would really look at his body language as 95% of communication is verbal. Body langauge varies by culture so what I am saying it may not hold true for him but here are some indicators of interst / lack of interest

    • Amount of eye contact
    • Nodding of head
    • Use of verbal prompts like hmmm, uh huh
    • tossing of hair
    • body language that mirrors your
    • body turned towards you
    • touch of hand or arm while talking

    Another thing is to observe him as he may be more introverted and shows his interest through action. You can discover allot by watching and not talking to him.

    If these are not showing or observing him is not possible then he may not be interested in you. The only way to know is to speak with him about the issue and let him know that you want to learn more about him.
     
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    although some of these certainly apply, i'll rephrase my question. i mean during sex....what are somethings that a guy does that let you know youre on the right track. besides moaning, and telling you so
     
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    Answer: Gets off!
     
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    It's common that guys don't like feeling stuck in ruts. I'm like that anyway. When the sex is spontaneous, adventurous, and fun, most guys are happy.
     
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    1. He turns off his cell phone.
    2. He gets a hard-on.
    3. He shoots his load.

    :lol - sorry, schwa'd. I'm feeling in a rather playful mood this morning.

    Seriously, tho, when Thorn lays his head back... relaxes... closes his eyes (I'm talking about during a blow job), I feel that he is saying, "You're doing everything right - you don't need any coaching from me - I'm ready to let go and enjoy" .

    So that is a good sign to me. Excellent question.
     
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    Wow! Let's call this "Rose's One-Two-Three Rule"! I'd say it's a winner!
     
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    Works for me! :phat
     
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