[Ask a Girl] Blue balls for ladies?

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  1. disneydad

    disneydad New Member

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    Ladies. Last night after my wife deferred screwing my balls hurt so much it felt like I had been kicked. Is there a similar feeling for you ladies when you are horny but don't get your rocks off?
     
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    I just get very nervous and fidgety and NEED to get off. I feel the need to hump anything that moves. It's almost like I'm going to have like..a panic attack or something lol

    Why didn't you j/o?
     
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    There's a part of me that wants to save it. At 45 years old I don't have the same volume I used to and my wife and I really like when I can spew tons of come on my her. My morning run helped with the aching. I might just have to go for another later. Not to mention that the ache will just come back as soon as I see my wife tonight and stay unless she gets me off. I guess I'm just no match for a wet pussy.
     
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    When we men actually put our egos away, NONE of us are any match for a wet pussy or the woman who owns it......:D
     
  5. disneydad

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    Well said!
     
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    Perfectly stated. A beautiful woman who owns her sexuality about the most attractive force I've ever known. You ladies have it.

    ~Steve
     
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    Im with Mitt...I HAVE to get off..or I cant function!!
    Which..is about the shape im in now..lol
     
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    So that's decided. A little self stimulation to get through the day.:yell
     
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    And a little self stimulation I got...with some help *wink* :D

    Feels much better now..tyvm :p
     
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    So back to the original question.

    I get release and my big blue balls don't feel quite as achy. What does the ache feel like for you when you havn't had some for a while.
     
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    I dont know if I can describe it......Im real edgy......nervous....I just HAVE to have some release......I know what I want......its just getting it to get me past the edginess......*sigh* I dont know.....I was never good with words..lol
     
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    Alright give this a try: what's it like when you just have no interest and SO is horny?
     
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    My wife will get fidgety, edgy, and a little "mean/bad" to me - not really in a evil sense, more along the lines of doing things to provoke me to "attack" her.
     
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    A vague pressure or ache or slightly sharp pain. An urge to find somebody to snap at. A strange anxiety that I'll discover that I can't have orgasms anymore.
     
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    Thats scary... Must make the sex interesting after you feel like that LOL:lol
     
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    Sorry--does not compute.
     
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    For me I just get really pissy. I tend to snap at everyone and find relaxing is just not possible.
     
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    My wife will get on the edge and look for some one or some thing to go at. Usually it is me.:ugh
     
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    I get crampy around my womb and ovaries, I feel like I want to pee every five minutes and I feel irritable.
     
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    It has been medically suggested that we should have sex a minimum of 252 times a year to stay healthy both physically and mentally.
    The hormones released into the body of both male and female after good sex helps keep us in balance.

    Sigh... I wish .... Sigh