Blowjob question for everyone...

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by SaraRue, Dec 27, 2005.

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  1. SaraRue

    SaraRue New Member

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    Today my boyfriend and I had a discussion about blowjobs....he says that I give him on average about 2 blowjobs where he cums and I swallow a month. I blow him quite often, but I guess I don't take him all the way as often as he would like. He says that for 2006 he wants A LOT more blowjobs from me where I make him cum. That's fair and I don't mind at all doing it :D I actually love blowing him. My question to you all is in one month how often do you give or recieve a blowjob that results in you or your partner cumming?
     
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    Not nearly enough. Perhaps you should phrase your question to read in one year instead. HA HA
     
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    A FULL blowjob - from beginning to end, maybe once every 2 months.
    A good long blowjob that works into intercourse, maybe 4 times a week.
    Good long intercourse, followed by him pulling out and me sucking him off, maybe 3 times a month.
     
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    Rose, you're making me cry!

    My wife doesn't give oral. *sigh* But I give her oral to orgasm a couple times per week. My late wife would give me head to orgasm whenever she lost a bet with me. *LOL* Probably once a week on average -- 15-20% of the time we had sex.

    "Good long intercourse, followed by him pulling out and me sucking him off...."
    My ex-gf insisted on that nearly every time we had sex. I didn't mind a bit. ;) She just loved the taste, and I thought it was a wonderful way to finish. Only problem was that sometimes I'd wait too long and hit her in the face or hair before she got it in her mouth.
     
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    Sarah & Rose, I think your men are very lucky indeed with what they get already!

    You see whilst my wife is happy to give me oral stimulation practically when ever I want it, she has never allowed me to cum in her mouth. For that reason quite honestly it isn't something I often ask for simply because it ends in such frustration for me.

    I'd sooner not start something that can not be properly finished.
     
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    I bring hubby to orgasm orally 3-4 times a week. I always swallow, but thats a relatively new thing for us (in the past year). We actually have oral sex more than regular sex... is that odd? It doesn't seem to bother either of us, but I wonder if its normal, lol...
     
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    Brad: Hang in there buddy! At your age I was right where you are now. (no bj O’s) As I state below:

    PunkKitty: Rose swallowed when we were first married then we had a couple kids and she lost her nice figure and lost interest in sex. We still had sex but less frequently. Then a couple years ago she got in shape as she is today and her confidence returned ten-fold! She loves sucking me more than ever. I usually get off during intercourse but whenever I want she will do it orally. As for her most of the time she gets off by me eating pussy. I love it! :brow You said in your post, "but I wonder if it’s normal, lol..." For the average couple in the world, maybe not. LOL! But for sexualforums members......well you know what I mean. :lol That said, I can tell that most couples (both married and in a serious relationship) on this forum are truly in love with their partners. Good sex has a lot to do with that.
     
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    I have always wanted to pull out and finish in my wifes mouth but she will have no part of it. Any ideas on how to change her mind?
     
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    When I mentioned this his ears really perked up...he likes this idea a lot, which is perfectly fine with me:brow .

    I'm curious if the majority of women do or don't swallow. I'm assuming that on this board swallowing is the norm, but what about all those other women who don't post on this site...do you think they are 'spits' or 'swallows' girls? I tend to believe that most don't do it. Anyone have any thoughts or facts on this matter?
     
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    I don't know if you and her watch porn together and I don't know if that would help at all. I have watched porn for a long time but it wasn't until she started watching it with me that she started taking my cum in the mouth and swallowing. I don't know if that changed her or not but it happened about the same time. Come to think about it reading sexualforums.com may have helped ease her into it. We both have learned a bit about spicing up our sex life from other posters on the forums. :brow
     
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    I give 3-4 blowjobs a week and always make my partners cum. Personally, I swallow. I would think that most women swallow. What I know from my girl friends, sister, cousins, they all swallow. Now that I think of it, I don't know any girl who doesn't swallow. I know of some cases where by accident they didn't, but at least among people I know, swallowing is the norm.
    Giving more blowjobs where the guy cums, that's a great new years resolution Sara!!
     
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    Welcome to sexualforums.com ahr888! :) I think you will like it here. We have a lot of real people that take part in the discussions.

    Enjoy!
    Thorn
     
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    FULL bolowjob

    My boyfriend gets a full blow everyday.He enjoys himself everytime and has no problem cumming...and I don't mind swallowing...It helps that he returns the favor too:)
     
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    At first i didnt like the taste and texture or the amount of it coming out, I love to give bj still but not all the way as often, plus my jaw gets sore easily. I would have to be in the mood to let him cum in my mouth.
     
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    well i dont know exactly how many times i have blown my bf but so far he has only not cum once lol everytime i either swallow or lick it off of him, which yes i really enoy becoz i know how much it turns him on to see that...oh and believe me i get the same back in return altho i havent cum yet ..bt we are working on it ^_^
    i no what you mean about jaw ache tho, i get it alot too so i just stop for a few seconds and licks and tease him and then get back to teh deed, gives my jaw a quick break lol
     
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    You can remedy the sore jaw problem by switching up on your technique. Varying what you do, especially during the beginning of a blowjob, should keep you from getting that 'repetitive-motion' soreness. When you start to get sore, just start licking the balls, or licking up and down the shaft. This gives you a rest, and feels great to the guy (at least MY guy!).
     
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    I do alternate techniques and such, its just his size and i have a small mouth. He loves it like that. lol
     
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    I love giving BJ so use them to lead up to the 'act', probably 5 times a week, sometimes more. I only finish them maybe once every 2 or 3 months...
     
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    I am not going to get into a numbers game but it all depends. Its all about the way the woman works the penius, a woman that knows how to give the perfect blow job will make the guy cum every time. Remember practice make perfect and don't be afraid to try different things on your better half.
     
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    I usually give my guy at least 4 blow jobs a month from start to finish, just love it when he cums in my mouth. That's not counting the times (but don't do it as often anymore) where I get off as he's close to cumming and finish with bj. And even more times we use oral as foreplay.

    Of course the only reason he gets that many blowjobs is because he is more than willing to pay me back ;)
     
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