Blowjob Problems

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  1. civeta_dei

    civeta_dei New Member

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    I care about my girlfriend very much, but she is absolutely horrible at giving head. The only problem is, she is under the impression that her blowjobs are really good, and I don't want to kick her down or anything. The way she does it, she sucks so hard that the head of my dick is scraping against her palate and it actually hurts a tad. What's the best way to go about dealing with this problem?
     
  2. heelfetish

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    Communication is key. You have to find a way to gracefully communicate that what she is doing is uncomfortable for you. Maybe suggest a different position, or a solution to the problem. The only way she's going to improve is if you let her know there's a problem. Just do what you can to be gentle in breaking it to her. Don't start with the words "You're horrible at giving head" if you ever expect to get some again. ;)
     
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    Tell her. Give her loving hints about how you think it might be better!
     
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    Just say, "Ouch, that hurts."
     
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    I would add a lot but HF said it best,
    But you must tell Her in some way that teeth are are not
    to be used in a BJ, Only the lips.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    I understand; I once had a gf who practically beat my dick to death with her hands and mouth. She was just too inexperienced to understand that it doesn;t need to be roughed up; soft touch is always better. I would just make suggestions to her and encourage her to make suggestions on what you can do better too....Maybe you won't get cut off, but it is dangerous territory. Just be glad she isn;t like a guy I know - his wife won;t even and never has sucked.