allright so i have been having some of my guys friends telling me that they think girls want me just because they talk to me a fair amount or because they come over to hang out, etc. i didn't think anything of it for a while, but i'm starting to catch shit for not acting on it. i like to think of myself as a relatively attractive person as i am in good shape at 6'1" and 230 pounds and i'm single so i guess it's a possibility. i just don't get the vibe my buddies keep telling me these girls are sending. am i just that blind to female signals? seriously? wtf? any input would be appreciated.