Hi all... I apologise for the potentially graphic nature of this post, but I do hope that someone can help me out. I am freaking out somewhat and would really appreciate some advice/comments. Today I was fooling around with my partner and one thing led to another and he fingered me. Although we did simulate sex, I don't believe I was well lubricated. He digitally penetrated me with one finger and was quite rough. However, it did not feel any different than the other times and it just seemed like normal playing. Towards the end of it, however, I noticed a small (perhaps 2.5-3cm in diametre?) stain of blood on the sheets. His finger(s) were also covered in blood. When I used tissue paper to wipe that area, there was a fair amount of blood to be considered spotting (for me anyway). However, after a couple of wipes the signs of blood disappeared completely. I am confused at how this may be, considering he only used one finger most of the time - he inserted two fingers but only very briefly (say, 5-10 seconds) because I told him it hurt. I'm a virgin in the sense that I haven't had vaginal sex. However, my hymen has been slightly stretched/torn already due to a doctor's check. Although even then the amount of blood then was less than this incident. I am still unsure if my hymen has been fully torn/stretched however. He was rough and from what he told me, he fingered me differently - instead of curling his finger and stimulating my g-spot, he turned his finger and pushed a little deeper and pushed against the back of my vaginal wall (briefly). Furthermore, his fingernails aren't that long to make me bleed. What confuses me the most is that he really didn't do anything that was any different to all the other times. I don't think this is the result of my period coming because I just finished my period one/two days ago. Even then, throughout my period there was brown blood. In this circumstance, the blood was fresh and bright red. And I'd say the amount was perhaps... half a teaspoon. It's been a couple of hours since that's happened and I don't feel sore - it's just a little uncomfortable but otherwise I don't feel any difference. My question is: what was the cause of the bleeding? Although I think it may be the result of my hymen being further stretched/torn, I doubt it as the circumference of his fingers (two fingers at most) are too small to stretch me to the point of bleeding. Could it possibly be that he scratched me? Even then, is it possible to bleed that much from rough fingering? I've researched this online and all the answers are the same: a torn hymen. What is the likelihood of it being my hymen being broken if it has already been stretched? I'm concerned because I have never had anything like this happen before. I would really, really appreciate an answer. Thanks!