Hey everyone, I am brand new here. So hello, everyone. I've only had sex four times in my life, and they weren't great (twice I was pressured/coerced into it, and the other two times were with someone I didn't like). I have been seeing a guy for two years and from the beginning he told me that sex should be saved for marriage. Well, we almost broke up recently and I told him that I just couldn't want anymore for sex. I feel as though being 23 and likely not getting any kind of intimacy for years since he is taking his time progressing, I can't do it anymore. I cannot wait. Either he gives it to me, or I will find someone who will and we will go our separate ways. He told me that he has been really thinking of changing his mind recently. He's been more bold too in certain ways, so I think he's serious. I would really like to have sex without condoms, as the idea of that is a turn on for me. I'd like him to cum inside. I have been on birth control for two years now. My mom told me it should definitely work against getting me pregnant since my period is perfectly regular on it. She said if you have breakthrough bleeding and an erratic period on the pill, it's likely not working. Is this true? I take my pill everyday but the time varies. I've heard from some you need to take it at the same exact time each day for it to work but then others have said that's not necessary. Some days I'll take it at 4:30PM in the afternoon, then other days not till 11PM. It depends on my work schedule. Can it still work even with the flip-flopping times of taking it? What kind of luck have all of you had with the pill and unprotected sex? I'm be VERY freaked out if I got pregnant. I really don't want to have kids at all, if you want the truth. Any advice is greatly appreciated. I know this question has probably been asked before, but I wanted to ask it too and explain my situation with it. Thanks in advance.