So I read that most birth control pills lowers the libido and can sometimes make the desire for sex non-existent. If some of you women experience this how do you deal with it? What can counter this side effect? Do you use an alternative form of birth control instead? I have a high sex drive so I wouldn't want a woman who's sex drive is slowly dropping due to birth control. But then again I don't want to get a girl pregnant. Dilemmas dilemmas.