Biggest turn off

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  1. Miss-Honey-Bee

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    What is your biggest turn off?

    For me, it's someone touching my feet, or being disinterested in me, or what we're doing.
     
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    A man that has had lots and lots of partners....uughhh.....used goods lol!!

    A man lacking sensitivity or humour

    Someone with no sense of timing...

    Someone that doesnt understand the psychology
    behind sex....

    and lacking intellect...

    uughh!!!
     
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    No sense of humor...oh yeah, that's a huge turn off. I can't stand anyone who is too arrogant to laugh himself.

    Vanity is also a big no no. I could never be serious about any man who spends more time in the bathroom than I do.

    Oh and no metrosexuals.

    I just realized I'm describing my ex. :p
     
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    Vanity, shallowness, and describing how huge your ex boyfriend is.
     
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    The "I can't" or "I'm just not good at ...." kind of defeatist attitude.
    I'd rather be with a clumsy, fumbling fool that has genuine interest and willingness to grow than someone who doesn't care about himself enough to strive to be good at something.
     
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    whoops, sorry i just fell.:lol

    A non interactive partner in bed. Someone that takes but doesn't give.
     
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    a totaly 100% submissive female that will do anything to please...that to me is a no no....as i prefer a female that knows what she wants and knows how to get it, but slightly submissive is very good, a little mixture hehe :)
    And another no no is a female that doesnt wish to be pleasured ( rare i know but they exsist )
     
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    hmm....

    a virgin or a girl with very little experience. a girl not really being interested in the sex and just doing it for the guy. and i'm not really a fan of sadism, bondage, or any of those other weird fantasies.
     
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    Arrogance. Anyone talking about how great they are at something. If you have to say you're great at it, you're probably not!
     
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    Know everything about everything and won't shut up about it, sloppy drunkenness, poor hygiene, better'n you snottiness

    Does that mean I can't kiss your toes?:cry
     
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    A lack of intellegence, self absorbstion, an overabundance of pessamissm, no sense of humor, and problems with intamacy are all huge turnoffs for me.
     
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    Total turn offs for me are, bad breath, having my toes sucked, and hairy backs.
     
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    When I know the girl has sexual experience, is absolutely gorgeous, and is still untalented in bed. I mean if its your third time ever having sex I'm not expecting you to be a demon but if your the type of girl that thinks she can just lay there and do nothing expecting to be pleasured, just because your gorgeous... don't waste me time.
     
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    My biggest turn off is lack of intelligence , if you cant stimulate my mind the rest of me is beyond your capibilities ;) .
     
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    Just so ya know, I don't suck toes either, but I do like to kiss 'em.
     
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    Lack of class. I know it's a rarity for someone my age, but I enjoy fine art, classical music, and the theatre (and I'm straight, can you believe it?) I don't like girls into monster trucks and nascar and that kind of stuff.

    Also girls who just lie there.
     
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    either sulking or a bad smell
     
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    Domineering Gals that think
    Ive got the pussy, So you do everything.

    hiker:sf


    Some great answers here.
     
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    Biggest turn off: a guy who makes no effort to do anything for me and who thinks fingering is dipping a tip in just to see if I'm wet.

    Also, a guy who has made a minimal effort that obviously isn't doing much, and then asks me how many times I came afterwards. One, if I did actually orgasm, I wasn't busy keeping count, and two, what makes you think I came at all?
     
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    Anyone who is too passive or doesn't try to get emotionally connected to their lover when passion starts to heat up.