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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Vman464, Dec 16, 2014.
What is the biggest sexual fear that you face?
Maybe I'm reading this all wrong but ... I don't see sex and fear in the same sentence, sex is fun and fear kills fun.
That my dick will quit working, so I'm taking "steps"
I have apprehension about things changing once we start having kids. This comes from hearing too many bad stories about this topic. So now this is the second thing in life where I have focused on the future (I was afraid of marriage so that was the first). Otherwise I am a live in the moment type of person.
The good thing about the apprehension is that I have been stockpiling ideas in my brain about keeping the spark alive. I am going to absolutely and unequivocally never let it die! I think deciding this ahead of time is a good thing instead of letting the whatever it is that happens to couples just sneak up on me.
It's all what you make of it. Just like w8th marriage some people c an make it work others cant. It sounds like you are already on the right path and having kids will not affect you any negative ways. It can be challenging at times, but it will be the best thing that will ever happen to you (most of the time).
My biggest worry about sex is that we won't have it. I'm worried that we'll get overscheduled.
That my husband will stop desiring me and become dependent to masturbating. Also not having sex at all.
I'm sure you have nothing to worry about doll! From the few pics I've seen no one could lose desire for you!
That I will never have a good sex life again. It's looking worse all the time. It's only half my fault. Maybe 40% my fault
Recognition is the first step of problem solving . . . IJS
That I will lose my touch and passion. The ability to please properly due to whatever reason whether it be physical problem or mental.
Boredom, loss of lust. The pleasure of orgasm can only mask the lack of sexual spark for so long.
being inadequate and unable to please.
Running out of little yellow pills
That I'll somehow contract a STD even though I practice safe sex.
I don't believe there is such a thing as safe sex unless in a long term strictly monogamous relationship.
One can take certain precautions such as using condoms but nothing is completely reliable or safe except celibacy!
Biggest fear shitting on someone dick. It might be normal for anal sex but I haven't experience it yet.
that i will be a disappointment to my partner.
I'm sure a southern girl like yourself could never disappoint!!!
My biggest fear is that I will stop trying new things or that my wife will be unwilling to try new things .