Big Problem about getting hard

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    i have been having sex with this one girl a few times a night for the fast 2 1/2 weeks. and 3 times when i was going to have sex i couldnt get hard. and one time she was giving me head and i couldnt get hard. every other time was good. just those 4 times i couldnt get hard. does anyone know why this is happened and how i can fix it? thanks
     
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    A few times a night? That sounds like all the reason right there, my dear. Give yourself a break! You're workin' the boy too hard.
     
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    the times i do it a few times a night it doesnt happen. its when im about to do it the first time for the night it happens
     
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    But it sounds like you eventually got it hard, and kept it that way for awhile, eh? Don't pressure yourself too much. Shit.
     
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    sometimes i cant at all tho
     
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    Sounds like your streesing 'the boy' out...like Mel said.
     
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    Gosh man, a few times a night. Most of us older guys can only dream about the days when we could go several rounds in one evening. It is doubtful that you are having a sexual problem, our little buddies or big buddies whatever the case may be get tire too as does the rest of our body and our mind.
     
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    the days ive done it a few times in a night ive gotten hard each time no problem. the days i havent been able to get hard are the days that i am doing it for the first time for the night. its really embarrasing when this happens. i need to fix it.
     
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    Especially for those of us on Anti-depressants.

    Probably don't have a real problem. However, depending on your age, it's not out of the question. Do you have any health problems like high blood pressure or diabetes?
     
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    no i dont.. i still cant figure out why this is happening
     
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    Not sure if this is helpful. Overall it sounds like this is more an emotional thing than anything else. If you are interested in reading some articles about male impotence there are three of them at this link that talk about the what it is, the diagnosis and some treatment options. Not sure you need all of that but it may help give you some insites.

    http://www.vicerexlabs.com/articles.html
     
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    Maybe you're just not getting properly turned-on/ motivated in the beginning,but once you get some,you get it good.
    Try maybe some different foreplay.Oral always works...69 is always a good 'mood enhancer' for all parties concerned.
    Just a thought:)
     
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    Being exhausted, physically or mentally, can cause problems for me. Also, of course, if you've had a bit too much to drink you're likely to encounter erection problems. Otherwise, at age 20 you should be ready to go. I'd advise you talk to your physician about it. While it's not likely, it's possible these problems are a signal that something more serious is going on.
     
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