how many of you male/female are bi-curious, or bi? when did you find out and what was it that changed your perspective? did it take a long time to accept or believe it? i know that i'm totally straight, but some times I think of sucking on a dick. for some reason, i really like to fantasize about it though seldom, but in reality i don't think i'd like it. Not because i'm afraid for anything, i accept it pretty well. It just doesn't turn me on in real life. is it normal to fantasize about things you'd never actually do, just because it isn't attractive to you in real life?