Bi-curious

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  1. humper

    humper New Member

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    Is it really wrong to have sudden feelings of a bi-curious nature.I have been married to the same women and having great sex for over forty years,but lately I have had urges to take a mans cock in my mouth and have a man go down on me, just a blow job,nothing else , I guess I'm thinking a man would better how to please a cock.Please be serious,thanks
     
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  2. ilkley

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    I have had thoughts about similar things over the years but never acted on them. Nothing wrong I think, just thoughts...
     
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    if the situation was just right, the guy was a good match I would suck him and take his load. I always wanted to swallow anothers cum just to see if I like it or not. I also always wanted to suck a cock... and even be nailed by another guy to feel what it would be like. Warm cum in my ass runing down my tight whole... Just the thought gets me hard. I am happy married for 30 years straight man, but always wanted to try this once, if I liked it well?
     
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    too bad we can't get together
     
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    No disrespect, but, forget the "straight" title...and just be honest with yourself. There is no shame in being " bi"...just go with it. Because there's nothing "straight" in what you just posted.
     
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    I think that being wholly straight or gay is a relatively modern concept. Bi sexuality is fairly common place throughout history and in some fairly "manly" cultures too. In feudal Japan, samurai were known to have same sex relationships with there brothers in arms (so to speak). In Roman culture it was acceptable for young men to engage in homosexual activities. Even the ancient Greeks were open very open to homosexuality and bi sexuality . Of course I am generalizing a bit, but no once can deny that these cultures had no shortage of machismo (samurai, the Roman Empire, Spartan/Athenian hoplites, etc) yet they were okay with man/man times. So when did this change? Are we still trying to get out from underneath Victorian and/or Puritanical ideals on sexuality?

    Its okay for us to slobber and oogle over barley legal female jailbait teens but not a nice looking penis on an adult? I like boobs. Love them. But I can appreciate a nice looking dick too. Whats so bad about that? I am not gay. Never once had a romantic thought about a man, but I am man enough to say when another man is handsome or has a nice looking dick. Women do it all the time to each other. I say just go with it. I mean, think about most of the porn we guys look at. There is usually a dick or two in there somewhere. You are watching a woman suck a dick, not a dildo, not a banana, A DICK. It's part of the equation. Without it, you'd probably be less turned on. And how come so many pornos that are aimed at men feature fells with enormous genitals? Is that because women all want these unreasonably large dongs jammed up in them? No. We want to see that because thats our ideal. They excite us. If we were going to be totally straight about our porn, it would just be naked women by themselves.

    Long rant. My 2¢. End communication .
     
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    YESS!!!!!!!!
     
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    Wow....well said my friend. Makes sense if you really never thought about it.
     
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    New here and happy to hear someone else having similar thoughts and feelings. I've always been curious to some extant. Came close a few times when I younger and had too much to drink. Now there's the Internet, and I find myself checking out gay porn sites. Firm, smooth cocks are very appealing. I'd like to feel one getting hard in my hand and then see how deep I can take down my throat.
     
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    Never ask someone else if what you are feeling is "normal". Be yourself, enjoy life. When I was with my first guy (a m/f couple) I felt so unchained and free. Follow YOUR feelings and desires; you'll be glad you did. Best of luck.
     
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    I have more itches at one time than I can scratch, so sometimes, it's a mood. I love it one minute, not interested the next. Weird. But I'm comfortable saying I'm bisexual because they're there enough to be who I am. Some nights I want to eat pussy, tomorrow (not like I DONT want) I may just want to fuck her. One dude at work can seriously get on my nerves, and the next day I'm letting him blow me. I probably need some kind of counseling. But, I don't fight it now, I just ride with it.