BF Too tired to have sex?

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  1. Gingerj87

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    So the past 3 nights he has been very tired and sore from work ( which I understand, because of his work), and he says he is just too tired. To me that is a little strange, because he didnt want sex for 3 days...are men really " too tired" for sex? lol ...I feel like he doesnt want me at all :( I dont know what to do
     
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    1) Masturbate
    2) Rape him
    3) Wait it out

    Women give the classic "I'm tired" excuse to turn us down all the time. Sucks when you're the "victim", hey?

    On the rape issue, just start fucking him. Raping a guy is a compliment. If he calls the cops, you were a lousy fuck. Suck his cock until its hard, get on and ride that thing like he owes you money.

    If you choose to masturbate, be sure to do it in bed right next to him and be loud as fuck when you cum. That'll teach him.

    Wife and I made a pact to never turn the other one down unless you seriously weren't feeling good (cold, diarrhea, bad gas, indigestion, etc). We call it "pity sex". You feel bad that you're not horny when they are, but you still fuck them because they want it and you love them.
     
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    What is this foreign language you speak of? I don't comprehend....:)
     
  4. kipro150

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    When I'm too tired for sex, I COULD have sex physically but there wouldn't be as much passion and stuff that makes sex infinitely better

    I'm sure he just wants the sex to be good and doesn't want to give you a half ass performance : p. I wouldn't take it personally unless there's other signs of problems in the relationship
     
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    idk , he is the type of guy who wants sex every day and couple times a day( im not) so idk this is weird....i dont think he wants me : ( i just feel so ugly
     
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    Contrary to popular belief, yes, it is possible for men to not be in the mood ¬¬

    Being serious, though, I wouldn't say three nights is enough to get worried. Specially if there is something is his work making it harder (I don't know, some shift change, or some particularly stressful situation, whatever).

    I think you can let a bit more time pass before havint to worry. Other than that, as suggested up here, you can also get him horny.
    Or make it very easy for me. For example, when I'm terribly tired, I love practicing cunnilingus with the girl "sitting" (not really, but you understand) on top of my face. Some girls find it is a little too dominant, but for me is like the laziest I could do. It's like: I do want to eat you out, but just if you put it just in front of me and I don't have to do much...
     
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    Does he look or seem tired? If so, he probably is.

    I don't see my partner during the working week but if I did and I was too tired for sex I would still like to be affectionate, kissing, hugging and embracing.

    Does he show you any other kind of affection?
     
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    Yup, working long hours and stress will make a guy (well at least me) not really want it if I have been getting it regular. Especially if my partner is one that wants me to do all the work.

    After a looooonng dry spell, I could be shot and I would do my damnedest to get it up.

    3 days it nothing to worry about.

    If nothing else, do like most guys have to when we get "I'm too tired" start working your way through the list of stuff you know gets him worked up.
     
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    I know you're feeling down, but its not fair to him to be too tired AND inadvertantly make you feel bad, which he'd have to do extra to make up for making you feel bad, all when its all just in your own head

    There's either a lot more to the story or you're overreacting, to put it bluntly
     
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    I would say just start sucking his dick while you're both in bed even if he says he's tired. He might be tired, but a nice slow and attentive bj is enough to wake any guy up!
     
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    I've never had this method fail to arouse me. I've been to exhausted to do anything but lay there and enjoy, but enjoy I did
     
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    I go by the ride it like you stole version. Lol! I do like that saying though.
     
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    1000 Stars, I am guessing you are never too tired...true?
     
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    Pretty true. I have to sleep every now & then though.
     
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    Actually, depending on what you do for a living, sure it is entirely possible to be extraordinarily tired. I would say if you have a physical job such as construction worker than yes that is not unusual. If your a high level executive type then there could be mental exhaustion. Further if your on a job with time limits and one is closing in on you then you are pushing it. Professional obligations always come into play.
    In addition, if its only been three days that is nothing to be concerned with because in the time frame of life that is nothing. I would start getting to be concerned if it grows into months etc., then you maybe looking at a real problem. Three nights is no strange, however find out what is going on at work that is causing him to be tired. I am certain you will find it is an important matter. Finally, and again, be concerned if it turns into months because that would begin to express other problem. A spice sex life in any relationship whether BF/GF or marriage is one key to success. Give it a reason and time then everything should work out but it becomes a regular matter then perhaps you need a relationship change. After all you are not married.
     
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    What a waste of a brain. You can't think past your pecker. Life is a whole lot larger than that because certain things do exist in life beyond sickness!
     
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    No man is ever to tired for sex...........
     
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    Opposed to what some guys like to advertise; yes, many of us can be too tired for sex. Or too drunk, or too...
    But it is different for guys than women.

    When I was 22 sex completely ruled my thoughts. It was kind of annoying actually. The good thing about it was that my hormones were so raging, I could almost have sex in any setting no matter how tired I was.

    My hormones have simmered a little bit these days. And I can be too tired for sex occasionally. I may still try/want to, but it depends.

    I imagine the majority of people on a sex forum will advertise that they are NEVER too tired for sex. Kind of defeats the purpose of being on a sex forum. "of course I am a porn star!" people will say. hahah.
     
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    I am no porn star as too small to feature prominently but still a fucking rat yet occasionally I must confess it can happen.......too tired, too drunk, too upset, too feverish, too WTF!
    Nah, I never said any of that hear, ok ;P
     
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    I think one time in the years of having sex I waa to tired