When me and my bf, first got together the sex was great, although I never could get off, he just doesnt last that long. Now that we've been together for a few months, its getting irritating that he won't take the time to please me, plus he only lasts for a few minutes, he claims he's nervous,and afraid that i'm gonna leave him again and we have talked about it, but he doesn't want to listen. The only time, I can get off, which I have only been able to do once, is when we were doing it doggy style, and I was able to play with my clit, without him knowing. Since then, I can't get him to do it that way. He is stubborn and has it in his head, that the only way he can make me happy, is by his dick being inserted in my pussy, and I have explained to him a couple of times, when he's asked me how he can get me off, that the only way is by clit stimulation. He just doesn't get it at all. I'm at the end of my rope, and I when I'm in the mood, and need to get off, i'll lock myself in the bathroom for a little bit. Ya think there is any hope for this 34 year old puppy, that doesn't have a clue, when he's been given the clue?