Does anyone have any intimate routines, exercises, or activities that you think are better with two people? These ideas shouldn't necessarily have to include anything sexual, but should be intimate and/or fun for a couple. Preferably the cheaper the better...but all ideas are appreciated. Also, what kind of things (both sexual and nonsexual) can a guy to to really turn his girl on more? My libido is so much higher than my girlfriend's, but I want her to be in the mood more often than she is...With any sexual acts we do she seems to do it only for me--which obviously I can't complain about, but I just feel like she should be getting more pleasure out of it rather than feeling obligated to. I have talked to her about it, and she just doesn't really feel the need to have sex but she knows that I want to. I just want to help her enjoy it as much as I do. I know it might come up, so yes I have eaten her out, but she just feels awkward when I'm doing all the work. Sometimes I also feel awkward initiating anything because it makes me feel like I'm pressuring her into something she might not agree with, because although I don't want to force her into anything a lot of times I have to talk her into being sexual with me.