Better sex?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Lizzie73, May 2, 2014.

  1. Lizzie73

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    I'm wondering who everybody here thinks has hotter sex--marrieds or singles??
     
  2. lbushwalker

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    How about married with singles?
     
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    I like the way you think bushwalker!! I'm married, but husband's always telling me to look for Single men to bring home ;)
     
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    I think Married couples... especially if the husband likes to see his wife Flirting and picking up other Men to have a little Extra Fun with. ;) Mine is one of those. He likes to Watch, and Join in. He sure loves those Cream pies!
     
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    I think it depends on how long and how well they know each other. Married couples/couples that live together get to learn every single button to push. Plus they tend do have a greater variety of sex to avoid routine, which makes for some red hot sex.
     
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    I don't think that married/single/swinger/whatever your status may be has that much bearing on how the sex is. I'd say that it all boils down to human chemistry and how well you and your sexual partner "go together."
     
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    10_3XL: Since April 11th you're gathering brownie points from me for that answer.
     
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    Groovy! But why "Since April 11th...?"
     
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    Because that's when you posted your intro "My Virgin Voyage - Be Gentle With Me"
     
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    Oh, yeah... Duh. :p

    Glad you appreciate the contributions I do make. :)
     
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    Seems longer doesn't it - to all of us :)
     
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    Kinda mind-boggling... I've gotten to feel like a bit of a "permanent fixture" on here and in reality I've only been a member/contributor for less than a month! o_O
     
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    But your contributions are excellent
     
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    Single cause your free to have several partners
     
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    I don’t think there is any hard and fast rule on this as so much depends on relationship dynamics – whether single or married. Having said that I can remember having very hot sex as a single – the heady rush of animalistic hormone driven physicality almost too powerful to control or resist.

    Now that I am a “bit” older and more “seasoned” however, I find that my sexual tastes have changed and I am looking for more than just a warm place to put it. Having been with my wife over 20 years we have certainly learned to push each other’s buttons - but things are much more cerebral / mental than hormonal now days. You find as time goes on there is much more to it than what you look like or pure physical attraction - it comes down to what you are willing to do to cultivate desire, keep the sex hot and provide satisfaction to your partner.

    Providing what each other needs without reservation or judgment has allowed us to fully explore any/all fantasy/fetish/role play/sexual situation we continue to dream up – and the sex is way hotter with her than anything I have ever experienced. It just keeps getting better and better.
     
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    My answer is married but with an addition. Two married people but not married to each other.
     
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    Speaking for myself, my sex life was much more fun when I was single.
     
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    I think there is more fulfillment from married. Less worries and hopefully more open. Too often married people don't get freaky and then it gets boring.
     
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    Many good responses here, but this one rings true for us. The sex is great because we talk openly about it. And over time have gotten each other dialed in perfectly...
     
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    We do know statistically that married couples have more sex than singles, but I do admit you have to work at sex over the years and decades to keep it fresh rather than mundane and routine. No surprises that many married, middle-aged men and women experiment with other middle-aged marrieds, and gain excitement and variety in the process.

    Communication within a relationship is good as long as both are talking and listening, and as long as one or the other doesn't have too many sexual hang-ups which limit potential variety. Even then I do find sex with my wife to give me greater emotional closeness, and I do get bigger and more satisfying orgasms in relationship sex compared to once-off sex, but I don't understand why there is a difference.