Better Masturbation

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  1. AGFUNK

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    Anyone have some ideas on how to make masturbating more satisfying? Usually I have to get off multiple times to even get close to satisfied with masturbating. I don't always have time to do that so I want some ways to make it better with just one or two orgasms so that I will be satisfied.
     
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    get a friend with benefits :p
     
  3. HotForHoney

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    I think you might be missing the emotional connection. I know I feel like that sometimes.
     
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    I have to agree with hfh, release from masturbation is good but I much prefer the connection with mrsbiker when we have sex.
     
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    I agree. Sometimes masturbation is counterproductive. Just makes me feel lonely and empty.
     
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    Don't start off with the sole intention of orgasming - start off by letting your thoughts and imaginings 'run wild' while masturbating.
    You are being 'too mechanical', enjoy the scenery along the way not just the arrival.
     
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    I would love to have a friends with benefits but my husband would never allow it and I won't cheat.

    It definitely could be the emotional connection.

    JonJo, I already do that.