Best way to finger a girl?

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  1. ball103

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    Hey guys/girls, just wondering if you guys have a few tips on fingering a girl?

    any tips/suggestions?
     
  2. 33stack

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    after getting her very hot and wet, slide 2 fingers gently in, palm up and start moving them as if you are motioning for someone to "come here". About 2 inches in you will feel a spot that has ridges something like a prune. That is the g-spot. Continue to massage it this way and use the other hands middle finger to rub her clit in circular motions at the same time. While doing this torture her nipples with your mouth. Do this till the desired effect is reached.:)
     
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    I have to ask, how old are you?
     
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    Not you lol. The OP silly.
     
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    my guess from the question he is prolly 10
     
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    I'm actually genuinely concerned that he's under 18. It's not common for someone over 18 to ask, but it's not unheard of.
     
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    this is true. it is an odd question for an 18+ year old to ask unless they have never had a lady friend and gotten to the stage.
     
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    Great spot, but also don't neglect all the other areas inside.
    I've had amazing results rubbing the bottom part of the vagina which is closest to analpenetration for lack of proper wording, also around the cervix. yes, making a woman get all stiff and writhing from such touching.
    You might be surprised what it does if you never tried.
     
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    Well just incase he is legal... I recently tried wrapping a vibrating cock ring around 2 fingers and playing with her like that. She loved it and I could tell it felt really good. That was hot for me too.
     
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    I stumbled across this book

    Amazon.com: She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (9780060538262): Ian Kerner: Books

    Its not a great book. The first half of the book is a collection of random thoughts written by an inferior mind. I almost deleted the book off my kindle in annoyance but I had some down time at work and I skimmed ahead to the second half of the book. Just skip to the good parts. They do give a fairly good description of how a woman moves towards orgasm and some of the nuanced aspects of oral/fingering. It is a bit formulaic and every woman will be very different, but there a lot of good things to try with your mouth and your hands that I thought were things that have worked also for me in the past.
     
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    I own that book. I agree with the bit I've bolded. We are all different, what works for me probably won't work for the next woman and vice versa. I feel the best way to finger a girl/woman is the way she likes, which is learnt from mutual experimentation and communication.
     
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    ^^ What she said!!! ;)

    Ask the girl you are with what she likes and watch her reactions. :)
     
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    And experiment.
     
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    >.<" some guys barely even get hugs at 18+
     
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    okey thanks for your advice :)
     
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    I'd suggest using your fingers.
     
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    Going for the G-Spot first thing is a rather advanced move. I think, for a beginner, getting her wet and exploring and watching her react is the best way to start, then move on to the clitoris, making sure you dip in for some added wetness fairly frequently is a good start. You'll know when you have it right if you pay attention to her reactions. You can try taking her hand and putting it there ans asking her how she likes to do it. Some girls will go with that, others won't want to.
     
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    Just take your time, enter it slowly. :) Do what feels right to you, talk to her and ask her what feels right to her. Every girl is different, just make sure not to go rough at first. It's better slower, it builds up a lot and her climax will come out great in the end. Also good to feel around her clit too, when she asked you to go faster tease her. ;)
     
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    I am 23 and I hadn't fingered a girl until I was about 21. That's also when I first got oral sex. I just lost my virginity this year. All this was with escorts and before this, I had barely had any experience with girls. It's not that easy for a guy get to that point with girls, especially if he's shy. In my experience, most "lady friends" do not talk about stuff like that with their guy friends unless they are friends with benefits and would actually get creeped out of he asked them something like that.

    I would have actually asked this question first had it not been up already. I would also like to ask for tips on how to eat a girl out, among other things.