Is there some kind of secret to getting that kind of thing going on? Some secret password you have to use to get into the club? Or is it just "Head to the bar, and keep trying, despite how many times you get slapped/pepper-sprayed?" As many of you know, since I've been here, been trying hard to find someone, anyone, to fool around with. I'm probably pretty close to being, if not actually, a bit of a nympho. I've gotten laid once in around a year and a half, and have next to no more confidence left in myself with how many times I've been shot down. I'm not a bad looking guy, though hardly a male model, so I'm a bit confused as to why nobody seems to find me attractive enough to at least take a shot with me. Am I too open and honest about what I want? Should I be a jerk to folks I'm looking to bed, rather than the good guy that I really am? Not sure what answers will arise from this, but if not, at least I'm getting this rant out of my system for the time being. I'm in quite a funk at the moment from all the rejection and lack of being desired.