Here lately my wife and I had a talk about porn, and she told me that watching porn during sex was not doing the trick. I asked here what do you mean, and she said well porn is porn and again it is just porn. Guy comes in meets girl screws her brains out and cums on her. She said that if it were more real to life and not some scripted scene it would turn her on much more. I do know that certain ones turn her on more, like girl on girl husband lets guy join in and girls squirting, which see is a pro at already, but it only keeps her attention long enough to get wet, and then the same ole sex not saying she is a dud, she is very awsome in the bed. I did a research online and found that more women and men prefer to watch amateur porn over the big production porns on DVD and online. Why because most people don't care about all the taboo and other stuff thats added into the filming. For example all the loud screaming orgasms the asshole licking and last but not least, all of the cum shots and anoying loud music to go with it. Most people surveyed want more of the Romeo and Juliet live happily ever after type. I did get this much out of the wife now grant it she is into girl with girl and gets very turned on by us letting another guy join in, she told me that she gets very horny by watching just normal people having sex with normal sexual emotions and sounds. She wants to she production companys make more adult films like reality shows, with people who are first time swingers or girl on girl scenes with meeting and talking and alot more social intervention and then the sex part and the after talk about the true meaning of what happened and how that person or people felt about it. What is everybodys take on this please.
I had to read your post an extra time to realize what the issue is. You and she are using porn to get her aroused enough to have sex. Then when you stop watching porn and actually have sex, it's the "same ole." My humble advice: Stop watching porn together for a while. Turn to each other for arousal, foreplay, creativity, communcation, and all the other things that go into sex in real life. Start in real life instead of porn, and things should go better.
We really don't all the time and your right it is better when we don't but when we do she wishes it were not so fake or faked. I agree with you I should have stated in the post when we actually do watch porn.
Actuallly that is a great Idea she is the biggest turn on to me. Although, she is camera shy I think she is more worried about it getting into the wrong hands or some type of mishap. We have made our own films mainly her solo and me too involved It was a treat to watch later on. I have tried to get her to let me make more videos of us together since the type work I'm in takes me away from home for long periods at a time, and she and I could stay more connected as to say in short. I think she has a low confidence with her on the camera. Which I don't know why she is a very fine looking person the guys call her my trophy wife.
Also since you are gone so long, they make dildo cloning kits. That way she can have you, when your not around! Clone your mini you and leave it on the bed with a note telling her what she should do with it. Oh yea have a video camera set up already!
Maybe I'm just the logistical outcast of the group, ... but did anyone else notice that the poll is reading a total 130%? ~Steve
Maybe you should dress up in some kind of disguse like someone has already said, "with a blindfold". But try wearing those sexy masks that you occasionally see in amateur porn sites. May add a little something more to the experience! Hope this helps.
I did get this much out of the wife now grant it she is into girl with girl and gets very turned on by us letting another guy join in, she told me that she gets very horny by watching just normal people having sex with normal sexual emotions and sounds. What is everybodys take on this please.[/QUOTE] We always begin sex with mutual masturbation while watching hardcore porn. She likes it as much as I do. We like just sex. The plot is not important since most plots in porn are corny. We especially like watching group sex, DP, gangbangs, strap on fucking, cum shots and cum swapping, orgies, wife swapping, big black dicks fucking white gals, masturbation, girl on girl but not guy on guy. It is so hot watching people fuck while we fuck in the spoon position. I love watching fucking with my dick inside her. My wife loves seeing multiple dicks in a group of guys fucking one gal. She gets so hot seeing and talking about the dicks.
