Best Position for BlowJob

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  1. jaymz84

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    What position is most enjoyable for BJ, and least enjoyable? Which one causes you to climax fastest? What's a good position where you can really enjoy it visually? Here's my opinion on the various positions.

    Laying on Back - When my girl wants to give me head, I often find myself laying on my back which is OK... well, all head is great, but I often feel that I am missing out on other BJ positions which I used to get from previous partners. It can take me awhile to cum in this positino-- like 6-12 min. Vision stimulation is minimal at this position.

    On my Knees - I believe this to by my favorite. it feels best when I am on my knees and easiest for me to cum this way. The only problem is, it hurts her neck this way...

    Sitting down--- like in a car - I find this to be erotic and very visually stimulating. In terms of speed of orgasm, I put it above "back" and below "knees".

    69-- Although fun, I can never cum this way. The problem with this, is her tongue tends to stimulate the top, not bottom, of my dick, which is less sensitive than the bottom. Also,I need concentration to cum and am too distracted like this
     
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    I like sitting down cuz I know he can watch, that usually gets him going so much that he'll finish in minutes.
     
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    we seem to prefer it when i stand....but if you like being on your knees, then just get on your knees on the bed, while shes on her knees on the floor.
     
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    I like it where I can relax and see, but mostly if SHE is comfortable.
    I found skills and the touch makes a difference how fast I orgasm.
    I had some I needed to help to make me orgasm, well at least enjoyed long sessions or oral, stroking and balls fondling.
    A current lady friend is SO good I can tell I won't last the moments she strokes / sucks me. Take 1 to 2 minutes. So if she desires to give me a longer BJ she usually stops a few times short of ejaculation and enjoys seeing and feeling my cock twitch in her hands then continues until next time when the urge to ejaculate passes. She makes me orgasm a few times within 10 minutes yet some take over 20 to bring me even close.
     
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    Me on knees her on all 4s in front of me..I like my balls to be free to bounce and sway back/forth
     
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    I like her laying on her back and me laying on top of her pumping away
     
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    Standing. I literally had a chick tell me she could make me cum in less then a minute, and she did. Best BJ ever.
     
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    This is where I absolutely love when a girl will stop before ejaculation,
    building a stronger final orgasm and enjoying the BJ a bit longer.
    Last one who did this for me either took it out to see it twitch and drip, or feel it twitch in her mouth. Naughty and playful, lovely pleasures.
     
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    yep, i love it when they know what theyre doing...mine just toys with me as long as she wants...then looks up at me and says "i'm gonna make you cum now" and inside of 60 seconds im done....its amazing....
     
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    I like it when im on my back and she is on all fours between my legs, with her sexy butt sticking way up in the air all spread open. love it love it love it.. I dont last to long:)
     
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    haha wow that all sounds great.. can't wait for my girl to come back from vacation wtih her parents so I can get blown. It always takes me awhile to cum though with blowjobs... it feels real good, I am just not sensitive enough there or something I think.. I dunno. 5 min at least and up to 10 min. I notice in most pornos, even amateur, guys are'nt just blowing up all over the place either so I thought this was normal...

    I've never had a BJ so good I exploded in a minute or two, but htat sure sounds fun
     
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    most importantly..if ur TRYING to make it happen quickly....it wont. lol
     
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    Doesn't matter to me. Mouth on penis is good enough.
     
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    We like me lying on my back. She lies on her side perpendicular to me with her head resting on my stomach. She can play wih my balls and I can play with her ass and finnger her pussy from behind. She can easily get up on her knees and I can play with her tits and then she can scooch around and straddle my face for 69 till we both come. Or if she wants she just stays right where she started and suck me till I come.

    We also like to transition from tittyfucking with her on her back and as I thrust higher she takes me in her mouth.
     
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    Depends on where I am at.

    My favorite is me sitting on the sofa. She can be next to me or on the floor in front of me. It is just incredibly visually stimulating and everything is within hands reach ;).
     
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    Boobjob is on to something...
     
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    I prefer him sitting back on a couch or bed or something while I'm on my knees in between his legs.. or him standing and me kneeling.
     
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    In a 69 because my penis curves and she can take it deeper. Or with me straddling her face with my legs spread over her upper body.

    Love it when she allows me to do the stoking. But have to control when I cum:(
    Takes a bit out of the act.
     
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    Same thing with me. I was having a complex when i first started give blowjobs, the guys looked like they enjoyed it but they wouldn't climax to it. I was seriously wondering if I was doing the right job lol :lol
     
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