Best places to meet a guy?

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  1. Mandy87

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    So Im new up here in North Fl and I dont have many friends. Iv tried dating sites but they havnt worked for me lol...any ideas?
     
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    Dating sites haven't worked out well for me either. The ones I'm interested either don't reply back or doesn't get past a few conversations on the 'net.

    I'd like to know too.
     
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    Prison LOL plenty of guys there. Just kidding.

    How about the gym, cycling areas, just about anywhere, just gotta step up and start talking.
     
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    well i am thinking bout joining the gym , but the thing bout that is I wont go up to a guy and I never had guys come up to me lol so well see...Im thinking about going to the beach and maybe meet them since its 10 mins away..
     
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    As a guy I could tell you it depends on what you looking for Friendship, Long term relationship, or just someone to hang out with and see were it goes. I would say be careful with online dating, but I would say stay out of the clubs if your looking for a soul mate. If your out for a certain personality, go where you think a person with the personality you want would go.
     
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    whatever your interests are - pursue them further. there are men out there doing the same thing, and you automatically have a thing in common that is evident you both like :)
     
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    I won't recommended joining a gym to find a guy. I work for a fitness club and I see a lot of women there trying way to hard to meet guys there. What are your hobbies? Like any sports?

    I love to workout and play basketball. I also love going to baseball games. Why not try going to a sports event. All my friends say I'm crazy to walk up to some guy and ask him out. I take chances and if they say no. Then that is life I'm not giving up. There is a guy out there for me.


    Take a chance! You will never know until you try.
     
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    A positive attitude and a little confidence in yourself counts for heaps R2P....:)
    And I'm sure you will find him sooner rather than later...:D

    Mandy.....sporting/special interest groups or even part time evening courses have their merit because you would already have some sort of common interest.
    As others have said, you probably won't find your future guy by hanging out in bars.....keep at it girl....after all, you've got a lot to offer right.:D
     
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    I went to a Halloween party on Friday night at work. And this guy who I was a bit attracted to from last years party was there. We left the party to goto a nicer bar and some of his friends were there. He is 50 years old and I'm 37 years old but I have no problem dating an older man.

    So anywho, we were talking and he was asking me what/when is the right time to call a girl to ask them out. I said I had no clue but told him to call me on Wed. So we shall see if he calls or not. I think we'd have fun together. He wanted to call earlier but I said to call me on Wednesday.

    So now I am wishing I shouldn't told him to call on Monday. Lil
     
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    Wait? What? Are you telling me I have those qualities or telling me I need to get them. :lol I'm confused.
     
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    I was indicating that you already have them silly....:p
    And judging by last Friday night, they are working for you...:lol

    Just making a point that other girls could do with following your example is all:tup
     
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    thanks for the replies...so guys do u like it when a girl approaches u ?
     
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    Why not?.....really, as R2P has said.....at the worst, all they can do is say no....so what have you got to lose??:shrug
    After all, your only asking them out for a drink/movie/dinner or whatever.....it's not like your asking for marriage or a lifetime commitment.
    It's just a social thing you know.....I'm hungry, your hungry....so let's eat sort of thing.... :)

    There's nothing wrong with showing a bit of confidence is there?...:D
     
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    yep ur right :D but i just dont wanna try too hard ..haha
     
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    i love meeting women at the grocery store..i enjoy food very much so a woman who can cook is a plus..unless there in the tv dinner isle lol and who doesnt like when there approached by a woman?