We use wet silicone and passion lube. I've heard coconut oil is awesome as long as you're not using condoms.
I just bought some organic coconut oil it is in a hard form in jar says to heat it up in some warm water for body use. how will this lube react with dildos?
For the past several years we have been using a product called "Silk". Actually buy it thru Amazon. Really like it for intercourse and solo.
Here's a homemade lube with great consistency (very viscous) which is water based and thus won't react with silicone or latex: Simmer 2.5 tbsp of flax seeds in 2 cups (0.5 l) of water for 20 minutes. Strain out the flax seeds immediately, and let it cool. This can keep in the refrigerator for about a month (it only lasts a few days at room temperature). Warm it up and then go to town!
I prefer Silicone based lubricants the best. Currently using one called ID Moments. I think it works pretty good! To me, Silicone lubricants work best for Anal.
We don't use this lube when using sex toys... Mainly just use it for his Cock for ANAL sexual pleasure. Thanks tho