Besides one ex....most girls I encounter

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by Fantasies151, Oct 2, 2004.

  1. Fantasies151

    Fantasies151 New Member

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    Seem to not be into fantasies and fetishes...especially mine, which encompass quite a bit.

    I don't know if it's upbringing or some fear...but it's strange. I tried to get my current girlfriend to do domination(me dominating, and her) but she shyed away from it.

    It's odd.
     
  2. Logger

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    One time I came on to a young lady, and I asked her if she liked Horror films. She just looked at me, and walked away.

    That seems like a great test of personality development. If a woman can get into varous role exchanges, then she is probably more trustworthy, and fun.

    If a woman is stuck, in one apprach, she may have difficulty saying No in some situations.

    Perahps go to a drama school and find young women to date from the Acting school.

    Scientology Tone Scale classes teach the ability to project various levels of attitudes.

    Here are some feelings to get started practicing. Any the GF feels willing to try? Anything GF is willing to try in a role play? Start with the easy, work to the more difficult. Have you looked into formal/informal training as a Drama Coach? Offeered to assist a good coach/instructor as a volunteer?

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  3. lancer674

    lancer674 New Member

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    When I firat met my girlfriend she was very conservative in her sexual behavior, i.e. positions, fetishes, etc. Now after a year she has come a long way in expressing herself. When I first met her she even abhored touching herself, or blowjobs (was just a thing a girl had to do). To her sex was just something you did and wasn't a totally intimate encounter like it is to her now. She is now open to fetishes of mine or different things that I want to introduce.
     
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