I have heard that women like aggressive and "hard sex" but that isn't me. I can't see myself ever doing that, I'm more of a gentle guy who wants his wife to orgasm first and then in my own time do my thing. Is it possible to go an entire life like this? I really don't want to change, I just can't be aggressive, she's my wife, not some animal. So question is that really, can I go a lifetime as what I am, a gentle lover with my wife, or is it a recipe for disaster?