So I have been thinking how many men would honestly want a woman like me.....now keep in mind that I am very strong willed, I am very sexual orientated and i know that sounds great in theory but that comes with a lot. I would never cheat on my husband but i could never be with someone who is vanilla. I like to experience many sexual pleasure which usual involves other people I am woman and I love men .....and woman. Being honest with your self would you really want someone like me. Could you handle the fact that I flirt non stop and I am very much a exhibitionist. Now the reason I even ask this question is because my husband has a friend who is married who flirts with me all the time and says he would love to have someone like me. His wife is a good friend of mine but she is very vanilla. Well we all went out last night and I talked her into wearing something short and slutty. He seemed to like it till we got to the bar. She was getting a lot of attention from guys and i was egging her on to flirt and she was and started dancing with a guy. He went ape shit screaming at her calling her a slut and a whore all she did was dance. But it made me ask my self what he thinks about me and I know there is no way he could be with me. Just wondering.