Hi all. I was a regular on here a while back but have been gone a while so I thought I might re - introduce myself. I'm 40. I'm a chef. From Sydney, Australia. Married. I joined a while back cause I went from being a sex addict (almost) to being married to the love of my life (who had/has zero sex drive) I sought help and found counsel. I also saw others being counseled well. I stayed for a while but married life, kids, work ambitions etc rip you away from things like this. I'm in a comfortable position now with less responsibility so I have more time for leisure. And I like the new forum setup too. I hope to get to chat to some of you soon.