I'm not sure what to do here, as I'm more of a neutral than a dominant personality. My wife seems to be a bedroom submissive. This is different from a full submissive as she doesn't take any shit from anyone in everyday life, but when it comes to sexual things she's content to let someone else lead, even to the point of her messing with other men while I watch, just because I want her to and she enjoys making sure I'm happy. So now I'm in a situation where I could let my twisted fantasies actually play out, or not. She's cool with being submissive, I just don't know if I can be dominant. I thought she was messing with other people because she enjoyed it...but it was for my enjoyment. Now that I know that...it's all different. What should I do? Let's assume we embrace her submissive nature...how do I adjust to that?